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PerpetualMotionSquad
March 12th, 2013, 06:43 AM
Ok so I am bisexual. I know this and I prefer guys to girls. However I feel like I need to have a girlfriend because a lot of my family won't accept the fact that I'm bi. When I am older I want to be able to see my family still so I am just trying to forget about guys but I can't. If any of you guys have advice on how maybe I could help them see sense or adivce on anything else regarding this topic it'd be so appreciated. Thanks :)

Gwen
March 12th, 2013, 06:47 AM
If your family is against gays you shouldn't let them stop you. Tell them about how you feel and if they're really with you then it'll go well. Don't try to change who you are and what you like because of your non-accepting family.

Atonement
March 12th, 2013, 09:45 AM
Don't feel pressured to prove your sexuality to anyone. It isn't a black and white concept. There are a lot of degrees of attraction and sexuality, therefore let it be what it is and live how you want.

kye.
March 12th, 2013, 10:02 AM
You remind me so much of me. I'm the same situation you are, but just know that you're not the only one. I planned on never to come out lol Which is bad because I'm going to feel trapped but I'm afraid my family wont accept me. I see myself with a guy in the future so I guess I'll just wait and see what happens.

PerpetualMotionSquad
March 12th, 2013, 11:16 AM
Thanks for the replies guys :) I just want to see my family when I'm older and I don't know if my dad will allow a boy in the house. He's said he won't before.