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[alexast]

I've never been the kind of girl that cares what other think. And last weekend in a party i hooked up with this guy in my school who is 2 years older and everyone found out and the guys in his year are really bothering me and i feel very bad. I know that i have to pretend i don't care so they will stop but i just can't, it's weird that i give it so much importance when normally i wouldn't. I don't know what to do about this, i just want everyone to stop making it a big deal.

[Wanderer_]

What did you do with him?

[anyone50]

Everybody makes mistakes and we learn from them so not to repeat them. Eventually someone new will come along at the next party and make a name for herself and in time these guys will have all but forgotten about you as long as you don't repeat the behavior that gain you such notoriety.

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

Well, you can't really make them stop talking about it. You just have to get through it, try to fix your reputation somehow.

Most importantly, learn from your mistake. Now that you know how people are, don't do the same thing again.

[SammieRose]

I've never been the kind of girl that cares what other think. And last weekend in a party i hooked up with this guy in my school who is 2 years older and everyone found out and the guys in his year are really bothering me and i feel very bad. I know that i have to pretend i don't care so they will stop but i just can't, it's weird that i give it so much importance when normally i wouldn't. I don't know what to do about this, i just want everyone to stop making it a big deal.

I do not find it hard to believe. Guys do want girls who will hook up with them, is natural. So they found out you are ready to hook up, they are trying to get a ticket to that.

Just disregard them, continue with your life, they will get over it in a week or so. For now they are testing to see if you are easy, do not give them a chance to prove it. Show that you did what you did because you wanted to then, but not because you are easy.