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CuriousKid65
March 11th, 2013, 01:07 PM
My goood friend and I regularly jerk off together and sometimes touch eachothers, it's very enjoyable for me, but when we started I was 13 we were both about 3.5 inches and now he's only 4 (17 years old) and I'm over 8 inches (15) and lately he has been mean towards me, he says it's cause he doesn't like that mine is bigger. I told him I like the size of his alot and prefer it smaller but he said he's ashamed of it. How can I make him feel better and more confident so that we don't have to stop doing it?

FergusDunn
March 11th, 2013, 01:58 PM
I guess you kinda start by explaining that its all normal different sizes and he still has growing time left etc - what you or anybody has in size is just normal - its not like you just grew a few inches to piss him off - No control over size,

johnsmith1
March 11th, 2013, 05:02 PM
We all grow at different rates. Also even thouh he is 17, he still has time to grow, so should "cahtch up" at some point. Though we are all different and size isn't everything.

Second Chance
March 11th, 2013, 05:09 PM
This is tough because if your friend is being a jerk about your size, then chances are he is jealous of you being bigger than him. It is probably fun having a jerking buddy, but if the guy is getting mad at you for something that is beyond your control, then he is really not your friend. Just tell him that he is fine for his size and that everything will even out in the end and that you don't care if he is smaller or bigger. If your friend is still a jerk about your size, then you should find another partner.

Faolan
March 11th, 2013, 11:11 PM
My goood friend and I regularly jerk off together and sometimes touch eachothers, it's very enjoyable for me, but when we started I was 13 we were both about 3.5 inches and now he's only 4 (17 years old) and I'm over 8 inches (15) and lately he has been mean towards me, he says it's cause he doesn't like that mine is bigger. I told him I like the size of his alot and prefer it smaller but he said he's ashamed of it. How can I make him feel better and more confident so that we don't have to stop doing it?
There's not really much you can do about size. It's really not that important, and I'm sure you can somehow find a way to tell him that size doesn't really matter.

GrandMasterFlash
March 12th, 2013, 01:27 AM
Its just a mans pride, our instinct is to be the alpha male so naturally you want to be the bigger guy, but thats all that is. Just explain to him that he is young both of yall are he has plenty of time for it to grow up until his early 20's so don't worry kids, its not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean!

MikeyB
March 17th, 2013, 04:38 PM
Not everyone is going to have the same size or develop at the same rate. It's just genetics.

brandon1995
March 17th, 2013, 04:40 PM
It's really his problem. He's unreasonable. If you can't stand that anyone's bigger than you you will always suffer unless you have the biddest penis in the world. Plus it's not your fault if you are big.

Grimfever
March 17th, 2013, 04:45 PM
I wouldn `t sweat it too much just make him understand that its not your fault that your bigger then him.

AJJ1
March 17th, 2013, 05:12 PM
start makin him feel all nice bout his dick

sdude
March 17th, 2013, 06:37 PM
Maybe if you offered to do some sucking on his dick and tell him the smaller size makes it easier??

VirtualGuy012
March 18th, 2013, 11:12 PM
He shouldn't worry about it. Size isn't everything and im sure he will grow.

Sethistheman
March 23rd, 2013, 10:46 PM
Just say your only growing

fast8
March 23rd, 2013, 10:49 PM
say size is everything you will grow maybe even bigger then me an im not going tell anyone what size you are