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Lucky14
November 13th, 2007, 10:44 PM
It all started back in preschool. I was in the same class as this kid and then we turned out to be in the same school district when we moved on to kindergarten. I didn't think to much of him until 5th grade.

We were in a group together for this project and, long story short, I developed a crush on him. And ever since 5th grade (I'm in 9th now) I've had a crush on him. I had boyfriends before and they were okay, but none of them made me feel the way he makes me feel in my stomache.

I don't usually get nervous, but this kid sure does the trick. I don't have trouble talking to him or anything, but seeing him and hearing his name and when he talks to me, all gives me butterflies.

Sometimes, it really seems like he likes me and then other times I'm really unsure. Like the other day I was helping these 2 4th graders with a crossword puzzle and I caught him staring at me like 3 times. And he smiled really big at me and I smiled huge, inside and out.

So here is what I need advise on.
Every year at around Valentines Day my orthodontist rents out his roller skating rink in our town and we get in free and so does a friend that we invite. So I was thinking about asking this particular boy to go with me, just as friends. Then I was also thinking that maybe I'll say something about him also taking a friend?(so that it wouldn't be too awkward for him, or me?)

I would really love to ask him to go, but I'm unsure about it because;

Last year at the begining of the year he said that he doesn't think that people our age should have relationships like they do now-a-days. I don't know if maybe that's changed since we're in high school now, or if he still feels the same way.

I know that there is always the possability that he could say no. But I really, really, really like him and I would LOVE it if he went with me. So should I take the chance?

:PLucky

TakenAway--x
November 15th, 2007, 10:51 AM
I say go for it.

I've never been rejected when asking a guy out, so there is a chance he could say yes. It would seem to me that he likes you. When guys glance at you multiple times, usually they are having thoughts about you, so go for it.

If he says no, then no big deal. There are more guys out there that would want you, and at your age, you've got time to date.

I started dating at fourteen as well. I've always been the kind to act on impulse, so if I want it, I go for it.

Smegs
November 24th, 2007, 12:55 PM
if u want to, go right ahead, whats stopping u?

Lucky14
November 24th, 2007, 06:00 PM
Why am I so hesitant? Well, last year he said he doesn't think people our age should be dating yet. That's the only thing stopping me.

AutumnDae
November 24th, 2007, 06:07 PM
It's a possibility that maybe he just doesn't think they should be together for like 5 years. Ask him, going roller blading isn't a life commitment.

Camazotz
November 25th, 2007, 06:00 PM
I say ask him to the skate thing. I dont think that should be a date, it'd be 2 friends hanging out. So, ask him as friends, and if it all goes well, ask him out to a movie or something, until you gradually date. It sounds like he likes you so I say go for it! :D

[[chickaroo92]]
November 25th, 2007, 06:28 PM
Take the chance, do the dance...

In other words, if you feel for him, then go for it.

Lucky14
December 1st, 2007, 09:02 PM
I think I will.
I just need to talk to him more often. We haven't talked for a while, but it's not like I have problems talking to him. I'm very comfortable around him. I just haven't gotten the chance. You know?
I'm sure something will come up.

Patchy
December 1st, 2007, 09:03 PM
Yeah I would talk to him a bit more then take a chance when one comes available

Lucky14
December 5th, 2007, 05:47 PM
Now there's this other kid. I liked him for a while too, but I always thought that I had a better chance with Brady. But then last Friday I asked him to go bowling with me and 2 of my friends on Sunday. So we went and had a good time. Now we are talking more with each other. Like yesterday when I was at my locker he came up behind me and kind of played with my hair. And it's just so easy for me to talk to him. And he's so adorable. Next semester I don't think I have any classes with him though and I want to keep in touch with him. But I don't know how. :/
Lucky