how much masturbation is too much (girls only)

[NatalieKallen]

Hi, this is my first post!

I have a very close friend that I talk to about pretty much anything. My question is how much masturbation is okay? How often do you masturbate? Im wondering about both physical and mental. my friend thinks I do it too much (maybe 4-6 times a day) and I wont be able to be satisfied by my husband when I get married, and also that I might damage myself physically.

[Haybay]

I guess I'm the odd one. I don't really do it all that much. Once a week if I'm luckY?

[NatalieKallen]

I guess I'm the odd one. I don't really do it all that much. Once a week if I'm luckY?

Is it bc you dont have time or that you just aren't intrested?

[prettypantyprincess]

Hi, this is my first post!

I have a very close friend that I talk to about pretty much anything. My question is how much masturbation is okay? How often do you masturbate? Im wondering about both physical and mental. my friend thinks I do it too much (maybe 4-6 times a day) and I wont be able to be satisfied by my husband when I get married, and also that I might damage myself physically.

not sure if there is a limit but if you are worried then play with other parts of you instead of between legs. i lotion my nipples for 20mins and then my thighs for 10 mins and then i can come from touching between my legs just a tiny bit because the other parts made me so excited!

[Haybay]

Is it bc you dont have time or that you just aren't intrested?

Plenty of time since I'm homeschooled, so I guess just not interested.

[NatalieKallen]

not sure if there is a limit but if you are worried then play with other parts of you instead of between legs. i lotion my nipples for 20mins and then my thighs for 10 mins and then i can come from touching between my legs just a tiny bit because the other parts made me so excited!

Sounds fun! i have never tried that, think I will give it a go! How often do you do it? I just dont want to become "desensitized" bc i do it too much

[prettypantyprincess]

Sounds fun! i have never tried that, think I will give it a go! How often do you do it? I just dont want to become "desensitized" bc i do it too much

i agree its probably good idea to tease yourself a bit. but i heard a penus is a lot different to a finger, so you probably will be ok with a bf or husband and it will feel new. after school i go to my boyfriends home and we cuddle and kiss a lot, but taking it slow cos we are a new couple. and he makes me so excited that after i leave his home i lotion myself in my bedroom for fun. and then it happens again during the night in bed, sometimes 3am, 4am, 5am or 6am whichever time i wake up during the night :yawn: so i think i do this fun thing 2 times everyday and more times on weekends maybe 3 or 4 times on a weekend day! and sometimes i do this at the beach (lotion boob/legs) but too risky to finish off or someone might see/hear, so just feel really desperate till i go home lol.

[lauren1]

I don't know if twice or three times a day is too much. But that's how often I do it.

[AbbaZabba]

Personally, I don't think there is a limit and each one of us is different. As long as it doesn't interfere or disrupt the normal routines in your life, do what you want to do.

[APimpNamedSlickback]

The vagina can stretch for a baby and it sometimes rips but it doesn't damage her sexual stimulation my friend had a baby and she said nothing has changed she masturbates regularly, still feel the same!

[txtwister13]

as long as your not ditching school or your friends so you can masturbate your probably OK....but if it starts to take over your life and its all you can think about or want to do you could have a problem.....btw 4-6 times is how often i usually do it per week ...... but remember we're all different, there's no set number for how much is too much.

[Wanderer_]

Like anything - so long as it's not messing with your life or you can't function without it

[prettypantyprincess]

masturba can include your thighs i think without between them, because sometimes when i lotion my thighs it feels like i'm 100% turned on and also my bf kissed my thighs and my panties went wet during it lol.

[christina2707]

Like anything - so long as it's not messing with your life or you can't function without it

This is right, I thnik so long it not affect your nomal life, it is no to much...

[Taryn98]

when anything you do interferes with living a normal life, it's too much

[NatalieKallen]

as long as your not ditching school or your friends so you can masturbate your probably OK....but if it starts to take over your life and its all you can think about or want to do you could have a problem.....btw 4-6 times is how often i usually do it per week ...... but remember we're all different, there's no set number for how much is too much.

Like anything - so long as it's not messing with your life or you can't function without it

This is right, I thnik so long it not affect your nomal life, it is no to much...

when anything you do interferes with living a normal life, it's too much

Thanks everyone! I dont feel like it gets in the way of my normal activities....but then again masturbating is a normal activity for me. Since Ive been on VT I have seen many who do just as much, if not more than me. of course some do it less too. anyway, my point is I dont really feel like a freak or some sex crazed gurl anymore. I just thought before since I didnt know anyone else who did it that much, that something was wrong with me. Thanks for all of your support

[Lilly F 97]

when you put things off to do it, i think thats when it becomes too much! as long as it doesn't interfere with your life its fine!

[Evaboo]

No such think ;)

[Kochanek]

This is right, I thnik so long it not affect your nomal life, it is no to much...

I agree with this.

And you could also ask the other way round:
How much masturbation is too less?
For some of us, allday life could be affected, if we do not do it often enough...

[Cali Girl]

As long as it doesn't get in the way and interfere with normal daily activities like working at your job, school, homework, family time, etc.

[rakster]

Masturbating is so much fun and even though I have sex with my bf pretty regularly, I still love to make myself cum at least once a day. It's different from sex with someone. I've read most married women have to mbate to cum most of the time anyway, so it's not something you do instead of sex, but in addition to sex. Just have fun and do whatever feels good ad don't hurt urself. Sometimes girls slow down on their masturbating as they get a little older and their hormones even out too.

[Reanne]

As others have said.... as long as it doesn't become something that takes over your life.

You can do it as much as you can physically handle, but also remember that having a day off can also add and build up the excitement for the next time.

In regards to how it will effect a relationship with a husband, that all depends on the relationship and how compatible you both are.

I think you should save it for when your having a bath or lying in bed at night. I think a great way to relax and have a good night sleep.

[PandaLeah]

some days... I masterbate a few times.. morning and before bed.. other times I spend all day doing it.. I think there is no limit on it lol

[emily-candace]

I'm pretty sure you won't hurt anything, I do it at least twice everyday. It seems like I have been doing it like for ever. I guess maybe when you start to get sore or raw, it may be time to back off a little.

[Tina36DD]

some days... I masterbate a few times.. morning and before bed.. other times I spend all day doing it.. I think there is no limit on it lol
Same here! The longest I spent doing it was almost 9 hours and I came 8 times that day. I was home alone and it was awesome! I can't wait for the next time i can do it again! I masturbated in almost every room of the house...even the garage! It was also the day I found my mom's toy stash from snooping since i knew they wouldn't be home until late;)

[boovball7]

masturbation is perfectly normal! its a better way of relieving your sexual desires by not actually engaging in sex! its a good way to stay pure in gods eye.

[NotShortButFunsized]

some days... I masterbate a few times.. morning and before bed.. other times I spend all day doing it.. I think there is no limit on it lol

true...maybe its my mood or how much sleep I get or something but sometimes I'm done after coming once but every once in a while its like I just keep going...that's when it gets fun lol :)

[Rima]

Each one is different , If you are comfortable , then no problem .

[PaintedWishes]

I don't think you can damage yourself from too much masturbation unless you have very long nails and jab yourself violently? T_T

Anyway, I think that as long as you are not constantly thinking about it and if it doesn't disrupt your normal day-to-day activities, then it is fine. If not, then it becomes an addiction and you need to slow down!

[Lemieux]

I lovemasturbating. I do it 2-3 times a day. I don't think any physical harm comes from it

[Anna G]

You know your masturbating in excess when a hot boy comes to see you and you tell him your busy.......Seriously when it distracts you from concentrating on other things that is excessive.

[randomnessqueen]

theres no such thing as too much i think.
do it as much as you like, and if you dont have a problem with it, then its ok.

[kitten13]

if you are not sore then you're good

[emily-candace]

if it starts to hurt then you are doing it too much.

[GigglyAbby]

At some point after you become intimate or age you mature-- it's highly likely that you'll masturbate less. What's too much? If you cause irritation or some damage then you know that it may be too much. Also -- it's likely too much IF you sacrifice something in your life to masturbate.

[rakster]

I like to mbate at least once a day, maybe twice. For me it's about pleasing myself and the pleasure of orgasm. But having sex with my boyfriend is all about the closeness and touching and stuff. Kinda different experiences with some things, like having a nice O, in common.

[CassieWTF]

I'm curious to know why someone would think that it's ok to do it a certain amount, but not ok to do it more than that?

If once is ok then 100 times is ok, as long as you don't hurt yourself or neglect your life.

[indoxyl]

Im surprised this wasnt locked for 'bumping an old thread'

[CutieHoney]

I do it at LEAST 3 times a day but I don't think that there will be any damage. (Unless you're like.. super gough to yourself xD)