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Cris_16
March 11th, 2013, 12:22 AM
Okay I was wondering if liking one guy is a part of puberty with hormones and what not. There is this one guy that I have feelings for (we used to be good friends now we barely even talk) I've had dreams of him (like we were dating nothing sexual) and when I see him (from afar) I get nervous. Just like when I like girls but is with only ONE guy.

Berad
March 11th, 2013, 12:29 AM
It's a semi-common thing to have some feelings for another guy. I would just wait and see, there's no need to put labels on anything so soon. Ya know?

johnsmith1
March 11th, 2013, 05:18 PM
Hormones can be a bit crazy. I'd say it's still a natural curiosity.

Second Chance
March 11th, 2013, 05:23 PM
Yeah, what you describe is pretty normal, and it is not uncommon for guys to like other guys more than friends. Hormones are weird, and they can make people think and do things they would not otherwise do. If you are concerned that you are gay, then that is generally only the case if you find many guys you see attractive. If it is just this one guy, then you might miss him as a friend and the hormones is adding sexual feelings towards your feelings of friendship to him.

In other words, you're fine, and a lot of folks were in your same position.

Arsenalfan123
March 11th, 2013, 05:24 PM
Hormones make you curious I guess

Cris_16
March 11th, 2013, 08:31 PM
Thanks guys! Your answers were really helpful :)