I Have a Problem

[The Batman]

this Is Deleted So Bye Bye.

[R_master]

eh i hate to say it but most straight guys wouldn't feel the same way.

have you ever explored the possibility that you could be gay/bi?

women display plenty of passion masturbating, maybe you just enjoy the way a male expresses it more?

sure it "could just be hormones" but thats a cop out answer. pretending to be a girl just to see guys jack off is a strong sign that your sexuality could be of another orientation than you really think it is.

also there is plenty of free porn on the internet, you don't have to resort to trickery to see a guy masturbate


oh and to answer your question, no there is nothing wrong with you. but you may have to reflect on your life a bit to understand these feelings

[The Batman]

Deleted bye

[R_master]

then why did you feel the need to make a thread in this forum, if you really feel this way and can rationalize your actions?

[The Batman]

because i know i'm not the only one with these feelings and if anyone else feels this way and is confused they can look at my thread and see what others like yourself would advise

[byee]

No, of course there's nothing 'wrong' with you. But you seem disturbed by your actions here, and that's not a good feeling. Feelings can't be 'wrong', though.

First, the idea of misleading others by doing a FB profile as a girl isn't really right, for obvious reasons. But, it does point to a sense of desperation. That's problematic. Desperation usually indicates a need that's stronger than usual. What's that about for you, that desperate need to see this performance?

Secondly, your stereotyping girls as not as 'passionate' as guys is troubling, too. Whenever you stereotype you overgeneralize, which means you're being inaccurate. All girls are NOT un passionate. Maybe online, maybe the ones you've seen, maybe the ones who need to j/o on cam, but certainly not all girls. Part of the problem with viewing online porn (or people who perform sexually online) is that you can easily generalize what you see and believe it's what 'everyone' does. It's not.

My recommendation? Turn the computer off and get out there and make some friends, hang out with real girls, and see that they're much different there than online in front of a webcam.

[LateForTheSky]

sounds like curiousity if u are only gettin the turn on by the physical side then ur not gay, thats if u know how emotional attraction feels. I suggest u ask yourself how much u like girls *in the physical way* then ask yourself if u could settle down with a guy. Cover every angle other than that its curiousity

[Never_Forget]

omgsh I'm like that. I love girls but they just don't turn me on for some reason.

[crash007]

I am the same way as tin head and you. I am physically attracted to guys but i love girls and want to marry a girl and have kids. I wish there were more guys to do webcam with because i cant even find them let alone girls!

[what the?]

This is actually more normal than you might think. A lot of people, especially teenage guys, just get turned on by sexuality (concern with or interest in sex) itself. This could be the case with you. It's nothing to worry about. If you still feel the same way in a couple of months time, so what? Anyway, Sam's advice, that you should get out there in the real world, was really good. Explore what real people have got to give. Good luck! :)

Ashley x

[grimlip]

Not to make anyone on here freak out but that's how it started for me. I was physically attracted to guys and emotionally to girls.... Then I thought I was bi, I thought I liked both. And now, I'm gay. I used to say I wanted to get married and have kids but then I realized, if you really are gay you could be marrying someone you will never love... at least not like that. Think about it deeply, for a long time, took me 3 years. Just don't eliminate the possibility that you could be bi/gay when it is very likely a chance.

[myspace]

I like seeing boys masturbate and I am straight. You are just curiois