Teaching

[Rhammartime]

Ive been thinking a lot lately about the joys of jacking off. You cant deny it feels great! i have a 10 year old cousin whos really quiet around everyone but me, and i really enjoy hanging out with him. Recently i have felt the urge to show him my parts and explain masturbation, helping him into this new world of growing up. I know hes quiet at school and stuff to, and i dont want him to be sheltered and socially inept. So do you think that it would be wrong to do this, if so why? and if you see no problem with it (or have experience in this situation) would you offer any advice? responses in general would be appreciated! thanks

[ChanChan976]

I dont think that you should show him anything or tell him cause thats the man in his lifes job. If your the man, then its ok but dont show him your parts cause thats almost sex with an underage.

[tomfelix]

The problem I see is that it would be better if he came to you ask you about it first our have the slightest bit of curiousness to it otherwise you'd just be sorry if forcing him to learn rather than letting him get interested then filling in what he doesn't already know

[fast8]

yea i say let him ask you if he wants to know something or learn how to do something dont just force it at him

[Second Chance]

I would definitely not teach a 10 year old because he's too young. It is one thing if he came up to you and started asking you puberty questions or if he started puberty early and needed help. However, since he is 10 and probably in fourth or fifth grade, then I would leave things alone. Especially with his being so young you could get into trouble teaching him about sexuality before he is ready.

Once the kid is 11 or in sixth grade and wants information, then give it to him. Just don't force imformation on him now especially since he didn't ask for it.

Also, this kid's parents have to be a part of the sex ed process. Maybe his parents are already teaching him about his body, or they have plans to do so in the future. It is not right to do anything behind the parents' backs, and you would be in a lot of trouble if the parents are not comfortable with your doing sex ed with their 10 year old.

[Nellerin]

Ive been thinking a lot lately about the joys of jacking off. You cant deny it feels great! i have a 10 year old cousin whos really quiet around everyone but me, and i really enjoy hanging out with him. Recently i have felt the urge to show him my parts and explain masturbation, helping him into this new world of growing up. I know hes quiet at school and stuff to, and i dont want him to be sheltered and socially inept. So do you think that it would be wrong to do this, if so why? and if you see no problem with it (or have experience in this situation) would you offer any advice? responses in general would be appreciated! thanks

I personally do not think it is your place to be "Teaching" him about this sort of stuff. And showing your penis to a kid that is 6 years younger, is sort of not socially acceptable even if your reasoning is "good."

I'd say at the least, wait until he asks you a specific question.

[killian]

my 14yo bro showed me how to jerk when i was 10. I enjoyed it, however wouldn't recommend it for everyone. Just depends i guess.

[Allain1996]

You're 16 and he's 10, so doing any type of sexual act (including masturbation) with him is actually very illegal. Unless you'd like to be charged at the very least with indecent exposure to a minor, and maybe even as much as statutory rape depending on how far you go with him, I'd keep your "parts" in your pants!
On top of that, he is only 10 years old! He most likely hasn't even started puberty yet, and his parents need to be the ones to explain sex, puberty, and growing up to him, not you!

[JonnyH]

For me personally, I would do the more talking than the action itself. Just don't show your private parta.

[justin 13]

Dont do that dude.

[johnsmith1]

Probably safer to do talking initially and see how he takes it. I was an early developer, and started masturbating at the age of 10. I did enjoy it, but didn't really understand. I wish someone had explained to me.

[Rhammartime]

thank you for all the responses! i agree showing him would be wrong and a bit much, but verbally introducing him didnt seem like that bad of an idea, given his family situation

[dufus]

I agree that 10 might be a bit young, and I'd talk about it with him to have him work up to ask me the question, so it would be his curiousity that led. I think if he's interested, all good in the next year or two...

[Second Chance]

thank you for all the responses! i agree showing him would be wrong and a bit much, but verbally introducing him didnt seem like that bad of an idea, given his family situation

Just be careful about verbally talking to him about puberty, too, because he just might not be ready. I would wait until he comes to you with questions or if you have talked things out with his parents. Young kids have a hard time keeping secrets, and you wouldn't want the kid going to his parents telling them that you told him about sex. 10 is still pretty young, and you might want to wait a year. Everything depends on how mature the kid is and if he even has the ability to know what puberty and sexuality is. If you start too soon on a kid, then you might mess him up if he's not mature enough mentally.

[brodyk15]

I can understand some of the concern. He is rather young but if he is really interested will determine. Be careful. Good Luck!

[ethan 27]

he is so young

[greenMCRday]

I figured it out on my own and he probably can too. I would only do it if he asked me...