Natural relationship progression

[tomfelix]

It's it me or is there a kind of natural progression of sexual stuff that happens in a relationship?

Like when I (eventually) get a girlfriend I will want to stay out just kissing, then when a while had passed touch each other, blah blah us know...

My normal relationship would progress like this:
1. Holding hands
2. Kissing
3. Touching over clothes
4. Under clothes
5. Masturbating each other
6. Oral sex
7. Actual sex

[anyone50]

While the way you listed your progession is proably the most common i believe it can be different for some people and and I'm specifically talking about the last two items on your list. Not all relationships make it to thhe end of your list. Some girls as well as guy don't want to have sex or may not like oral. I think this kind of a game plan would not be a good idea as expectations when you start dating someone. Better to just enjoy the relationship and not worry about if your progessing the way you feel it has to be.

[Eth_94123]

The progression is different with other people :)

[AbbaZabba]

To me, there is no set rule. Jordan has been my best friend since age 6 and we have been in love for just over a year. We have made 1-2. We have had serious conversations about sex and at this point, are not ready. So I feel when the time is right, we will 3-7 all at once. Don't worry about how things will progress, nature and the way you communicate will lead the way. Just enjoy your friendship and relationship, need not worry about any order of things.

[David29]

I think your timeline is a pretty common one

[rocketsheep]

ffff

[ajp1993]

Yeah your timeline is pretty accurate though occasionally steps get skipped. For example with my 1st proper gf we skipped number 6 :P