Why is this???

[slimboy1997]

Okay, i am straight and would love to have a girlfriend, but why is it i only get turned on by males?? Like i have tried watching straight porn but i just can not get hard, but if i turn gay porn on, i have a raging boner?!?! Why??

[Thanatos]

Its something different, and out of the ordinary and thus is exciting to you.

[Ryhanna]

Do girls turn you on at all?

The way you've described your situation, makes it seem like you might be gay. You'll have to be more specific. Do girls turn you on at all? Do guys?

[Tinker]

It normal it's hormones and you are just experimenting

[sdude]

If straight sex doesn't make u hard, why do you think you are straight?

[Lovelife090994]

Okay, i am straight and would love to have a girlfriend, but why is it i only get turned on by males?? Like i have tried watching straight porn but i just can not get hard, but if i turn gay porn on, i have a raging boner?!?! Why??

This is my trouble too, care to talk on it?

[JDubs]

The simple answer is your probably just gay/bi. I went thru the same thing

[Coolguy10890]

I don't believe that it means your "gay or bi" because I have the same problem as you. I believe its because you may like girls by their personality, not like "OH BOOBIES I LOVE THIS GIRL!"
Because I myself, like girls by what their personality is, and I do think some girls are cute, but not completely obsessed with their boobs and butt.

[Nellerin]

Okay, i am straight and would love to have a girlfriend, but why is it i only get turned on by males?? Like i have tried watching straight porn but i just can not get hard, but if i turn gay porn on, i have a raging boner?!?! Why??

Just part of curiosity most likely, plus being interested in something more "similar" to yourself (aka Guys) makes sense as a teen.

[mmppfc]

Same for me, I dont bet turned on or attracted to by girls, recently ive been wanting to see my mates naked

[ChanChan976]

Hormones....

[Faolan]

Do girls turn you on at all?

The way you've described your situation, makes it seem like you might be gay. You'll have to be more specific. Do girls turn you on at all? Do guys?

I don't think your gay, but you might be bi/curious. It's the same with me.

[Ryhanna]

I don't think your gay, but you might be bi/curious. It's the same with me.

I didn't say he was gay, only that it was a possibility.

[Rhammartime]

have you considered the fact that you may be bisexual or even gay? if you are so turned on by it, it could be a stage, but then again maybe not

[digzchickz]

yeah dont really worry about labeling yourself, thats what your teen years are for, discovering stuff about yourself. eventually you will find out what you are into, and no sense in fighting it, u just gotta accept who u are.

[JonnyH]

You're just curious

[OllieASDFGHJKL]

Okay, i am straight and would love to have a girlfriend, but why is it i only get turned on by males?? Like i have tried watching straight porn but i just can not get hard, but if i turn gay porn on, i have a raging boner?!?! Why??

Yeah i'm like this.. i guess you/me might just be curious or bi?.. idk:)

[Troy35216]

Okay, i am straight and would love to have a girlfriend, but why is it i only get turned on by males?? Like i have tried watching straight porn but i just can not get hard, but if i turn gay porn on, i have a raging boner?!?! Why??

This is my trouble too, care to talk on it?

I am very confused. Straight porn does not arouse you at all. you can't even get it up. but gay porn not only gives you a boner it gives you a raging boner. that sounds like the opposite of straight. If straight AND gay porn made you hard I would say the standard "it's hormones and doesnt' mean anything" or whatever. but if straight porn doesn't do it for you and only gay porn gives you a blue vein throbber then I don't think your as straight as you think you are.

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Well at the moment you may be curious, depending how long this goes on for. My situation is that I want a relationship with a girl, but I don't want sex with them or any form of sexual contact. Boys on the other hand I want both. I've defined myself as bi; that's just me though.

[Lovelife090994]

I am very confused. Straight porn does not arouse you at all. you can't even get it up. but gay porn not only gives you a boner it gives you a raging boner. that sounds like the opposite of straight. If straight AND gay porn made you hard I would say the standard "it's hormones and doesnt' mean anything" or whatever. but if straight porn doesn't do it for you and only gay porn gives you a blue vein throbber then I don't think your as straight as you think you are.

Just because gay porn gives us erections doesn't mean we may want to one day live on with or have a romantic relationship with a guy. Girls get me emotionally just not physically. I don't find guys appealing for companionship at all. I'd rather be with a female. My body is just odd.

[Troy35216]

Just because gay porn gives us erections doesn't mean we may want to one day live on with or have a romantic relationship with a guy. Girls get me emotionally just not physically. I don't find guys appealing for companionship at all. I'd rather be with a female. My body is just odd.
i understand all that and i've seen people say that before. it's the part about not getting boned up for girls or straight porn that confused me. i know you can be sexually attracted to someone without being romantically attracted to them. i didn't know you could be romantically attracted without being sexually attracted. didn't mean any offense or anything

[Lovelife090994]

i understand all that and i've seen people say that before. it's the part about not getting boned up for girls or straight porn that confused me. i know you can be sexually attracted to someone without being romantically attracted to them. i didn't know you could be romantically attracted without being sexually attracted. didn't mean any offense or anything

Fair enough but there is more to love than sex, and you learn to love that too.

[Polo2847]

I have the same "problem." I guess I just like both? I don't know. I'm still 16 so my hormones are still crazy. I want to get in a relationship with girls, but I always find guys attractive too. I don't really get off with str8 pron. I guess I want to keep my views with girls "pure" in my eyes, and because guys are always playing around, I want to screw with them. Idk, blame biology. :P:yeah::yawn:

[dufus]

Great question...I consider myself Str8 / bi-curious. I get way turned on by guys and their boners and sex as well, but I also get wood with girl guy / and all girl action as well. I don't know why you wouldn't be...just some wierd thing I guess...

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, it could just be your hormones, or you could be gay. Wait until you're done with puberty, to be the judge of that.
You probably won't know your true orientation until then.
But don't worry about labels, also, stressing over this won't do you any good, so just go with the flow, don't worry about things you have no control over, like your sexuality.
Just be honest with yourself, and accept who you truly are, and you'll feel much better about yourself.
But like I said, your true orientation should be clear to you, once you've finished puberty, and your hormones have balanced out.

[Texas warrior]

Well I like furrys but would I date a real life furry, no. It is the same thing psychically you like guys but emotionly you like girls.

[drew6]

seems really weird to me.

surprised you have a girl friend.

[gui0506]

Maybe just curiosity... It happens to many guys at this age.

[xmojox]

Don't worry about it man. Labels don't matter at all. Just enjoy what gives you a boner and go with it. It doesn't matter if your label is straight or bi or gay or whatever. Don't cause yourself any anxiety over it.

[DeepFriedFat]

Just becuase you think your straight or want to be straight, doesn't mean you are

[ImCoolBeans]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[teen.jpg]

You're sexually attracted to guys? Or you're curious? What's the problem? Do you, and don't let anything change the way you want to live.

[steellord321]

Okay, i am straight and would love to have a girlfriend, but why is it i only get turned on by males?? Like i have tried watching straight porn but i just can not get hard, but if i turn gay porn on, i have a raging boner?!?! Why??

i think u need to sit down and really think about whether u just want to have a girlfriend cuz it's expected or cause ur actually str8....labels can be useful if denial causes u stress. i'm sorry but it just sounds gay or at least not fully str8 to me...it's ok man :)

[Danny Phantom]

Don't stress yourself.
I agree with most of the people here saying it is puberty though. Your hormones and all of that.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

You could be one of us ;P

[THEDJ100109]

i think it has somthing to do with that u trying come pary with the other males like u would see in dogs and stuff

[Hermes96]

the way you've worded this make it sound like your gay as you don't get turned on at by girl. it sounds to me like your i n denial