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Shadow
March 9th, 2013, 01:47 PM
I feel so bad I just don't know what to do anymore I am a social outcast at school. I have given up on my dream. My world is falling apart as I know it!

unusedaccount
March 9th, 2013, 01:51 PM
Feel Bad: Bacon
Social Outcast: Check
Given Up on Dreams: Meh
World Falling Apart: Already Has

Feel free to PM me, if you want to talk about anything, seems like you could use a friend. =]

HexedDex
March 9th, 2013, 01:52 PM
You maybe told this a lot but, it's not over you still have a long life to go and you shouldn't give up all ready. Not all hings go according to plan and if you've giving up on a dream then make it your goal to find a new and even better dream. Maybe you could find other people like you at school who are social outcasts, you may find something you like about him/her/they.

Shadow
March 9th, 2013, 02:06 PM
Feel Bad: Bacon
Social Outcast: Check
Given Up on Dreams: Meh
World Falling Apart: Already Has

Feel free to PM me, if you want to talk about anything, seems like you could use a friend. =]

I can't pm you

unusedaccount
March 9th, 2013, 02:28 PM
I can't pm you

I PM'd you, you should be able to reply. :cool:

Sergeant
March 9th, 2013, 07:46 PM
Hey man. The number one thing to do is not to worry - and I know this sounds hard. What you are about to read is something you may hear 100 times, but genuinely consider this. Speak to a family member or guardian, or speak to your favorite teacher that you have a genuine bond with, or even speak to your school nurse if she's friendly. I know its hard when you find there is nobody in your age group to turn to, so if you have siblings try talking to them. Speak to any of these people about what you are going through - and speak about why you think you are going through it. Mention when it started, and how intense it is now compared to what it was back then. Prepare all of this so when you decide to pluck up the courage to speak to someone, they are clear about what is going on. You may be frightened to speak to someone - but honestly you will be all the more thankful for doing it, because 100% of the time life gets better afterwards. Dude - once you hit your lowest spot, you can only go up and this WILL happen. If you manage to tell just one person that you trust, you will feel all the better for it. If you can talk to your parents, do it - even if you are embarrassed. One part of parenting is unconditional love and they will love you no matter what. If you only ever do one thing, speak to somebody, things can only get better. Never give up on your dreams, maybe give them a break, but keep fighting and pushing for the best grades, and the most success so you can achieve what YOU want to achieve. Find the courage in yourself to refresh a 'new you' and look at life from a new angle - take a new approach, and give everything a go.

Ryhanna
March 9th, 2013, 08:14 PM
What's your dream? You shouldn't give up on it. No matter how bad things look, there's always a change that you can make it come true.

As for being an outcast, that's the other kids problems tbh. You're obviously a great guy, and if they can't see that, it's their loss. Try making friends with other kids who don't have many people to talk to. I usually find that I fit in with these kids. :)

VictoriaGotaSecret
March 10th, 2013, 10:20 AM
I feel so bad I just don't know what to do anymore I am a social outcast at school. I have given up on my dream. My world is falling apart as I know it!

Don't give up, you still have a lot left for you. If you give up think of what you'll lose. Watch this video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_CmslnI2pk&list=FLgG0_E66rqM5CO_cmG0t9iA

I PM'd you, you should be able to reply. :cool:
He can't reply to you unless its a moderator

dontfiguremeout
March 10th, 2013, 12:10 PM
OP Request. :locked: