What does it mean if a guy doesn't cum from a bj?

[Kristin_97]

I've done it a few times with my bf and he never has an orgasm. I don't know if its something I'm not doing or doing wrong. He says it feels good but I think he must not be turned on enough by it for some reason. He's a really great guy and doesn't try to push me into having sex or doing anything more than I want so I want to make him happy.

[Taryn98]

I know that some guys have a hard time orgasming that way so I don't think it means anything

[Harry Smith]

He could just be tired, had a lot to drink, under a lot of stress. A lot of factors affect him, don't worry about it being your fault.

[SammyG17]

From what I've been told, and even witnessed, guys have to be mentally horny. The feeling of lips vs. his hand is probably enough to make him not orgasm. I've even talked to a few guys that say they go "wet numb." They describe it as still feeling good, but it isn't enough for them to finish, and the sensitive parts don't really "feel."

[Wanderer_]

It happens- its not like porn where the guy always gives the girl a massive load to the face
In real life some are nervous, shy or stressing so much about wanting to cum or not too soon that they just can't
Just know he loves what you do and have fun

No such thing as a bad bj

[adogboy]

I know that some guys have a hard time orgasming that way so I don't think it means anything
<quote>I know that some guys have a hard time orgasming that way</unquote>

lol of course he has a Hard Time he's erect ain't he when you give him a BJ?

[redneckgal]

I just think some guys have to be stimulated in a certain way to be able to cum. I am sure he still enjoys it though.

[anyone50]

I wouldn't read too much into this, I think most guys would rather wait to orgasm during intercourse but if this botheres you i suggest you ask him what feels best while giving him head.

[Jakey116]

honestly, this is comming from a guy, and it's happend to me alot, can mean MANY things.. seriously, don't get too hung up on it, if the guy is genuine and he loves ya, then no stress.. if he actually gets angry about it, flick him off.. it will happen with time, he may be nervous , or just not horny enough, many things.. relax :)

[Kristin_97]

Ok, now I don't feel so bad, thanks :)

[Charl1e]

Don't worry... some people just don't cum from bj's. Might be because it isn't a vagina and that can satisfy his physical and mental hunger. Hope this helps!

[PinkFloyd]

Maybe he just doesn't respond well to it. Try different activities.

[Celtic.]

No such thing as a bad bj

unless she accidently bites down 0_0.

anyway ive had multiple Bj's and it sometimes takes along time before i can cum.Your doing it right. Try licking his head and lick your palm and rum it on his head really fast it helps make him cum faster

[justinglives]

rest assured it likely has nothing to do with you! for some guys the blow job is just not enough to put him over the edge to finish. no matter *** how good *** it feels! trust me I know because I'm 1 of them. it doesn't happen all the time and sometimes oral is enough. sometimes not though. it's like a guy wants to cum sssoooooooo bad but just needs a little bit more. what helps me is it my partner starts to stimulate me manually as I get towards the end. a blowjob and handjob at the same time is guaranteed to put me over the edge! and this happens whether it's a guy or a girl thats doing it. you might try stimulating in manually as he gets towards the end and then ask him if that feels good... judge what you have to do from his reactions and just ask him to be honest! pM me if you wanna talk more

[justinglives]

the other thing is that age can be / is a factor. for like an example if it's a younger guy who is used to doing nothing but masturbating with manual stimulation he will probably need more stimulation thana guy who has a had sex, or has cum by other.ways.
hope it helps!

[jacobbillings9856]

He may just be nervous, but its normal to not cum when getting a bj, from what ive heard

[RudyRude]

u probably just suck at giving bjs

[prettypantyprincess]

^he's just being rude, don't listen.

[Swimmie]

Eventually, he will cum... don't worry, just enjoy it :D

[connormac]

It's always been hard for me to cum from a blowjob. It feels really good but because it's so slow it can be hard to reach a climax with it. Blow him till he's pretty close and then jerk him off and finish him

[David29]

I just think some guys have to be stimulated in a certain way to be able to cum. or if having a bj is a new feeling to him it may be hard to cum as well