i hate this guy

[crepesuzette]

I really don't like these guys who sit behind me. Some idiot today said i was not present in class when the instructor was taking roll and then everybody burst out laughing at me. That's a horrible thing to do. It's like saying my presence is not welcome. I really wanted to punch that guy in the face, but since he's so much taller and bigger than I am, I just did nothing. When teh girls behind me chuckled, I grew a bit angry and I nearly collapsed in tears. I hate this. why do these things always happen to me? It's not my fault that people don't like me. I haven't done anything to deserve this.

[AbbaZabba]

This is all I can tell you, ignore them and most important, don't let it get to you. You have to put your mind to it, but enjoy your life and f*ck those who get in the way. I'm good at tuning good in and tuning bad out, and wish I had a magical answer how to do it, but you have to put your mind to. When you hear something you don't like, train your mind to think of something that you do. Good luck.

[anyone50]

There will always be people that pick on and bully others and getting mad or getting even will only bring you down to their level. Most of the time they do this to get a reaction from you so I suggest that by ignoring them completely it will take the fun out of it for them.

[Ryhanna]

I'm sorry this is happening to you. Just don't let them get a reaction out of you. If they see that they've hurt you, they've won. It's hard, but try your best to ignore them and focus just on your work.

You could try talking to a teacher about it, but unfortunately there probably isn't much they can do. Really, the best thing you can do is just pretend that they aren't there, or perhaps, if it's really bad, see if you can request being put into a different class.

[Abyssal Echo]

I have to agree with the above posters Ignore them..don't let them see its bothering you. once they see its not bothering you it takes all the fun out of it. then they'll stop.

[JoeHillsTSD]

You have a few options:
You can attempt to ignore it. Do not react, and if you do, laugh. If this guy calls you a buttface (which I hope is more mature and unique than to do so), laugh and say something like "Haha, good one" or "Hmm, now that you mention it, my face does resemble a butt". If you are enjoying it, he definitely will not and should eventually leave you alone.

You can also approach (only if this bullying just started) and let him know that what he is doing isn't cool or funny and that he needs to chill out. Try to do it a non-hostile environment where there aren't a lot of people around. Most of the time, bullies are only bullies when they have an audience to up their actions.

If it continues let an adult know. I know this is the last thing on many people's mind, but it truly does help, especially if you tell an adult who you can trust and won't make a scene of things. My friend was being bullied a few weeks back, and it had gotten to the place where she was too afraid to enter our classroom. Me and a few mutual friends decided to notify the teacher (who everyone is cool with) because she wasnt able to, and he handled the situation easily and quietly without causing anymore drama. My friend was able to return to class without feeling threatened and hasn't been bothered since.

This is a last resort, but has worked for me in past experiences. Use violence. Stand up to him, and if he continues, fight him. If you know you stand no chance, befriend some tough guys, whether they're some big beefy football players, or the sketchy kid in the back of the room who is a 2x blackbelt in karate. Find someone who can intimidate this dude and let them know that you are not to be messed with. I resolved several problems with fights and ended up befriending a bully after fighting him (weird right?). Sometimes fights are the only way to kill that built up hostility.

Hope I helped :)

[crepesuzette]

nah, if you tell him, he'll find it even more funny.

[CoolKid97]

Ignore him. He wants a reaction out of you and if you don't give him one then he will move on. Keep your chin up! :)

[crepesuzette]

psh i had not given him any reactions but still he's been trying to get a rise out of me several times. and the thing is that my physiology always picks me to be the one to pass out papers and then he starts cracking a joke about me here and there and i just don't appreciate the jokes since they're not appropriate.

[CoolKid97]

Hmm... Well you could talk to a guidance counselor or really close friend? I hope everything works out. You can PM me if you ever need too!

[Second Chance]

This is a tough situation, but I agree with the others that you should ignore the jerk who is giving you a hard time. Somehow he is getting a reaction out of you either directly through your reactions or indirectly through your body language. Because you have become entertaining for him is why he is picking on you. If you don't do anything, then you take away his power. Kind of like how a good card player shows no reaction so not to give away his cards that is the same kind of thing you need to do. The guy is going to push you to your limits to try to get you to break, but if you don't do anything, then he'll eventually give up.

I would talk to your teacher about your issue to see if he/she can give you some advice. Also, talk to your school counselor, too, because a lot of times they have good ways of dealing with jerks like the one who sits behind you.

More than anything don't react at the time when he is being a douche, but it is all right to vent to someone after school and talk things out when the guy is not around.

[crepesuzette]

yeah i guess you guys are right.

[Lost in the Echo]

I know how you feel, but just ignore that guy, he's an asshole.
He wants you to get pissed off at him, and force a reaction out of you, but don't give him that satisfaction, ignore him, and eventually he'll fuck off.

[crepesuzette]

you can say that again, bocefus98. tomorrow i'll have to deal with him, but for today and yesterday, he was taking the cahsee so he had to be in a different room. but the good thing about him is that he helps me with my math homework. the thing is he does not respect me.