What to do ...

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So, I'm in a hard situation. I have a really big crush. On my male friend. Who is most likely straight. And he has a girlfriend.

I already told him I "sort of" like him, but it's alot more then sort of. I don't want to ask him out, that would ruin everything. But I really just want to get this off my chest.

The problem with this is that I never have the chance to. Im too scared to do it at school, I dont have his phone number, and he isnt on facebook. Any ideas?

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, honestly, I think the best thing to do, is keep this to yourself.
If you tell him you have a crush on him, it could make things awkward and weird between the both of you, or maybe even ruin the friendship.
And I don't think it would be worth it.

[Berad]

Don't do it. You'll just ruin things, especially since he has a girlfriend.

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Oh, yeah, forgot to mention that. I already told him I "might" like him, but its waaay past "maybe" now :D

But I dont know where to go from here. I suppose move on, but easier said then done. If I try to move on, that really wont make me feel any better.

... But what choice do I have?

[Berad]

Oh, yeah, forgot to mention that. I already told him I "might" like him, but its waaay past "maybe" now :D

But I dont know where to go from here. I suppose move on, but easier said then done. If I try to move on, that really wont make me feel any better.

... But what choice do I have?

To be honest, you're only 13 bud. You may be rushing into your feelings.

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To be honest, you're only 13 bud. You may be rushing into your feelings.

But when you really have feelings, age doesnt really matter.

... Besides, I'll be 14 next month :P

[Naue]

Just give it time, time can change a lot of things and your outlook on the situation.

If there is a chance that it might cause harm to your relationship and what not, wait until a better time when you feel more confident etc.

If you feel that now, you do what you know is best.

[Taryn98]

If he's straight and you're not, you're best off not mentioning it. I don't see this ending well.

[Eth_94123]

Yeah I agree with all of the above! Keep it to yourself because you are likely to end up ruining the friendship you have :(

[anyone50]

Unless i'm missing something i'm not sure there is any place for you to go from here. You have told him you like him and he is straight with a gf. What exactley would you like to see happen? Just keep your thoughs to yourself because if you as you call it get this off your chest it's a pretty good bet you won't have the relationship with this guy that you presently enjoy.