Need help

[Yarn]

Ok so today I found out that this girl I used to like has a crush on me now. The reason I don't have a crush on her anymore, even though I did for the first month of school, is because one of my good friends has a big crush on her. She apparently considers him just a friend but hasn't told him that because she doesn't even have a clue that he has a crush on her, ironically considering he flirts like EVERYDAY.

So my problem is, now that I know she likes me...I've got feelings for her again. What should I do? :wub:

[AbbaZabba]

Seems pretty simple to me, if she has a crush on you and you like her, you need to go for it Yarn. If she just considers your friend, just a friend, nothing going to happen with them. Your friend will just have to deal with it if he get jealous. Don't wait till she loses that feeling, you need to do it now. If she knows that you know she has a crush on you, waiting will ruin your chances. Good luck.

[anyone50]

I agree what are you waiting for. if you like each other there's not much more to say except ask her out

[Taryn98]

why is this even a question? If she likes you and you now like her, it seems straightforward to me.

[dontfiguremeout]

Boy likes girl+Girl likes boy=a relationship!
Don't worry about your friend. This is about you right now. Put if you're friend becomes a huge problem in this relationship, then there's a problem. He's your friend, so he should respect that you two are going out, even if he does like her. I've had that happen many times and I had to respect the girls choice.

[Ryhanna]

Ask her out.

If it feels like a betrayal of your friends trust, it's not. You've already done the kind thing by him by moving on when you found out that he liked her. But now that you know that she likes you, it's obvious that nothing will happen between them, so now it's his turn to do the right thing by you and her, and let move on.

[Faolan]

I know that girls often have a code that if a guy asks you out and you know your other girl friend likes him, you say no so as not to hurt them, but I don't know how it is with you three.