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amarrm
March 7th, 2013, 08:52 PM
i have these weird fantasy about my bestfriend. like i want to have sex with him but i am straight i really am i only have these feels towards him. last night i had a dream he was naked in front of me and stuff. i also want to see his penis i don't know why i try to stop it but they wont go away. i think he is attractive idk. im not gonna come out because it would mess up our friendship he is like a brother to me ... and plus why would i come out if im not gay. oh yeah and 2 times i was on video chat with him and my other friend who is a girl and he showed us his bare ass fully.

Skitty
March 7th, 2013, 08:59 PM
i have these weird fantasy about my bestfriend. like i want to have sex with him but i am straight i really am i only have these feels towards him. last night i had a dream he was naked in front of me and stuff. i also want to see his penis i don't know why i try to stop it but they wont go away. i think he is attractive idk. im not gonna come out because it would mess up our friendship he is like a brother to me ... and plus why would i come out if im not gay.

This is just another part of puberty. You are just a little curious. Things like this are VERY common, even to straight teens. During puberty there are tons of hormones coursing through your body, which can lead to some strange thoughts. Don't try to label yourself at this point, labeling can to some confusion and make you feel like you are something you are not. Just live life, man. If these feelings become something more, then go after them if you wish, but its all up to you. I hope this helps! :3

amarrm
March 7th, 2013, 09:06 PM
This is just another part of puberty. You are just a little curious. Things like this are VERY common, even to straight teens. During puberty there are tons of hormones coursing through your body, which can lead to some strange thoughts. Don't try to label yourself at this point, labeling can to some confusion and make you feel like you are something you are not. Just live life, man. If these feelings become something more, then go after them if you wish, but its all up to you. I hope this helps! :3
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thanks (:

Skitty
March 7th, 2013, 09:08 PM
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thanks (:

No problem! :3

Jakers61
March 7th, 2013, 10:42 PM
It's just puberty buddy.

yodanick1098
March 7th, 2013, 11:00 PM
I understand you and I can speak be experience because this is happening to me right now. I am on a fine line between bisexual and curious, and that line is getting thinner and thinner every day near the bisexual area. But this stuff is mainly part of puberty, don't label yourself yet, what i did when the last guy I had dreams about,i told him. And we had sex. It felt great but God intervened and he had to move away to another state. God builds us all differently in physically, mentally, and sexually (penis,ball, vagina,boobs,ass). And he makes us have these dreams to help up learn more about ourselves. And if your a true friend, then I would tell him how you feel and about your dreams of him. And if he is a true friend, then he will under stand and most likely he would like to experiment with you by jerking off with you or giving you a blow job or things like that. I think he is going through the same mixed feelings and sexual dreams about another friend just like you are. And I am surprised that he did not show you and your friend, who is a girl, his dick. Lol

Naue
March 8th, 2013, 01:05 AM
This is a total normal thing that a lot of people go through during puberty.

It's important that you explore and understand different sexualities and what not, but your thoughts are not wrong or disgusting in any way.

thomasgj
March 9th, 2013, 06:29 PM
Yeah you're gay get over it.

Cook my Sock
March 9th, 2013, 06:48 PM
I think someone just got pooed on :rolleyes:

And yeah I'm the same just curious, also i have dreamt about my friend being naked n stuff like that.

ChanChan976
March 9th, 2013, 09:43 PM
Have fantasies all the time. its just hormones. dont worry.

JonnyH
March 10th, 2013, 12:48 PM
You're just curious. I also experienced those things

Shadow
March 10th, 2013, 10:10 PM
It could be puberty or you could be curious. Nothing to worry about friend.

dontfiguremeout
March 10th, 2013, 10:13 PM
Puberty Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. I think you'll find better answers here.

drew6
March 11th, 2013, 12:48 AM
could just be that you want to see his junk. maybe once you do
those thoughts go away

jxxx_z
September 11th, 2016, 03:08 PM
You might be curious, you might not. You'll know eventually