pain

[KalaRae]

hey my boyfriend and I have been having sex for awhile now. recently I began to feel numb and sometimes pain when we have sex. I was wondering if anyone else has had these problems. these feelings keep me from orgasiming too. were looking for some help.

[Berad]

Try taking a break for a few weeks, may help. (Just guessing)

[SammieRose]

Numbness and pain during sex are clear symptoms of lack of lubrication due to lack of foreplay. You might be starting intercourse while you are not quite aroused yet, giving to lack of lubrication and actually your body will reject the attempt on sex.

You and your bf might be engaging in intercourse before you have allowed yourself to become fully relaxed and loving in spirit as well as the body. It is important that you experience all stages of arousal, which includes dilation and engorgement of the lips and inner vagina, a lengthening of it as well, so that accommodating the size of the penis is not a problem and the vagina becomes sensitive and sensuous.