How do I get my best friend to fancy me?

[KikiMekaka]

I know this has probably been asked a million times before, but I'm really close with my best friend, who is a girl, and I now have feelings for her and well, how do I get her to fancy me? (I know it seems pathetic, but I can't really ask my relationships advisor (We ask each other) for advice on how to get herself, so I've come here) Thanks in advance you lovely people.

[Taryn98]

You can't make someone like you. As long as you be yourself and you two get along and she seems happy around you, just ask her out and go from there. The longer you wait, the more difficult it will become.

[AbbaZabba]

My boyfriend has been my best friend since 6 and been in a relationship just over a year. It was time, honesty, being open and communication that made this work. I am very much in love and still look at him as my best friend. If it's meant to be, it will happen. You know how close you are, maybe you should be telling her how you feel. If you are worried you might lose a friendship, let her know that too. Might not happen over night, but you planted the seed. Good luck dude.

[anyone50]

I agree with Taryn98 on this one and might add if you try to hard it miight stain the relationship you already have. just be yourself and see where it goes.

[beachbrodudehot10]

I agree with Taryn98 on this one and might add if you try to hard it miight stain the relationship you already have. just be yourself and see where it goes.

Well, I violently disagree with Taryn98. But dats life, ya know? Ups and Downs, blunts and weed.

Listen, Taryn69. I'm callin' you out. HAHAH You can ABSOLUTELY make some one love you, or at least like you. If you force yourself to be with them a lot, it's basic science that they will begin to feel, at least, some attraction. I think i speak for everyone when I say that Taryn is not the authority on attraction. No judge, no judge, but maybe there's other opinions?

I love you gurl, but listen. I disagree so much it hurts. My current gurl didn't like me at first, but den I started wearin' this bitch-ass cologne (Jaguar-Puss) and she actually talked to me for da first time! ALL ON HER OWN! She asked me about why I was smellin' so fine, and it broke da ice.

Brodawg, I would recommend pickin' up some cologne, too. Ja never know where ya might need it! :yeah::yeah::yeah::yeah:

[Synyster Shadows]

I think it's possible. You can't force them to like you, but if you continue to be yourself and open to her, she might start feeling more for you. Not saying it will happen, but it might. As Taryn said, just go for it and ask her out.

[anyone50]

So if I understand beachbrodudehot10 right all you have to do is put some cologne on and force your presents on a girl and she will love you or at least like you. I'm glad this worked in this instance for him but by saying it will work everytime for anyone is going a little far. Just curious how other girls feel about this method. For myself if a guy approched me like this and i told him I didn't like him or at least not in that way and he used this method i think a restraining order would be my response.

[Eth_94123]

Well the bad news is that you can't just make her fancy you! :( the only way she will fancy you is if she feels that kind of attraction towards you :)