Who Made the First Move

[AbbaZabba]

So who made the first move in your relationship, you or your partner?

I have not done anything yet, but I keep very little in, so I have started conversations with Jordan on sex and my feelings. I am sure when the time comes, I will be the one that makes the first move then too. Jordan is way too much of a gentleman to me, so I don't think he would be the one, but who knows.

[Amber Bi]

my now bf made the first move. I guess i was flirting, but HE was the one to ask me out . so yeah, he made the first move

[anyone50]

It was my bf mainly because he was so much older than myself and like Amber I proably did let him know in a non verbal way that I was open to the invatation in a flirtatious way

[Ihaveagun]

I did. We've been best friends for as long as I can remember, I was sitting on his lap a few months ago, and I just kissed him without thinking about it. :)

[Taryn98]

Guys generally make the first move the very first time I do anything with them, but once we are together then I will start it sometimes too.

[TinyDancer]

When I had a bf he made the first move but it seemed like it took forever! I was all following him around and laughing with him and was totally obvious. He later told me he was shy. When I get a next time, I won't be afraid to make the first move.

[Evaboo]

Me! I was like do u want to prove our love for each other?

[Wanderer_]

I was flirting first but he made the first real move

[Kristin_97]

I don't think there's anything wrong with a girl making the first move (come on it's 2013 ;) ) But with my bf he made the first move. I was way too nervous to do anything.

[Brighteyes]

If I had not asked out this guy who I just knew I was madly in love with, when I was fourteen years old, I guess I would still be waiting now for him to ask me.

He was at that time tremendously shy and totally feared that I would reject him, if he ever did pluck up the courage to ask me.

Am just so glad I did....We have now been together for a total of nine years, have been engaged for two years, and have actually lived together for almost six years.

Life simply doesn't get any better than this.

[lyriclover]

For me it's complicated. We had both been flirting with each other since we met but she was the first to admit she liked me. She also kissed me before I kissed her.

[SAR151]

If I had not asked out this guy who I just knew I was madly in love with, when I was fourteen years old, I guess I would still be waiting now for him to ask me.

He was at that time tremendously shy and totally feared that I would reject him, if he ever did pluck up the courage to ask me.

Am just so glad I did....We have now been together for a total of nine years, have been engaged for two years, and have actually lived together for almost six years.

Life simply doesn't get any better than this.

Amazing. Congratulations on getting engaged and best of luck in the future.

[Brighteyes]

Amazing. Congratulations on getting engaged and best of luck in the future.

Gosh...Thank you so much for your very lovely post.

And may you too have the same happiness that I have in my life.

[funyun4282]

I made the first move. My BF is not the kind of guy who would make a first move. too shy

[Aceso]

Bit of both, he was the one to initially tell me he had feelings for me but I've made moves in different situations. It's a bit of give and take for both of us, we communicate well :)

[SAR151]

Gosh...Thank you so much for your very lovely post.

And may you too have the same happiness that I have in my life.

You're welcome. :)
And thank you, I appreciate it, I'm not the best when it comes to the relationship field so I'm still looking. Being 20 and having 1 gf doesn't give me a lot of experience. Lol.