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wildog17
March 6th, 2013, 07:17 PM
(Note to moderators I am asking if he likes me not how to get him to like me)
So to start it off, im bisexual and yes theres this guy I really like that I hang out with. No one knows Im bi and in the group of friends I hang out with everyone is seemingly straight (including me, and some have girlfriends). However there is this one guy that every time we hang out, he makes it a point to squeeze my butt on multiple occasions and sometimes go for a front end grab. Of course I play along (not as much back though). He seems to like to mostly do it to me. And if we're standing around talking or sitting down, we usually ends up sitting next to each other and occasionally he'll hold my hand for like a minute or if were in a car, he'll put his head on my shoulder and sometimes he'll fall asleep. Sometimes we'll talk about our penises and stuff like most guys but usually then it's just us in the conversation and if that happens he usually likes to maintain eye contact with me or stare at my bulge. Those are just some of many occurrences and we have never done anything serious. Do you think he likes me or is just horny? And why?

Second Chance
March 6th, 2013, 07:22 PM
My guess is that your friend is probably into you more than a friend because he is grabbing your butt and you two talk about sexual stuff. I suppose it would be fair game to test the waters to get your friend's opinion on gay/bi people and to see what his reaction is in general. If you get a bad reaction, then don't tell him that you are bi. If he is totally all right with it, then I suppose you could ask him if he would consider going out with a guy. If he is all right with it, then you can ask if you two can be more than friends. Just be really careful because if this is a person who can't keep a secret or you live in a place that is really homophobic, then you should not do anything at this point. Everything depends on this guy's body language and how he acts around you because all of that are clues as to whether or not he is "straight" or is bi.