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Swagging god
March 6th, 2013, 01:03 PM
I have dated this girl and for the second she broke u with me but says she still loves me. She says she will talk to me on Sunday to see if I want to get back together. In my heart I kinda still love her but refuse to be built up just to be let down in another month or so. What should I do?

Dark_Desires
March 6th, 2013, 01:37 PM
I have been in the same situation recently and my advice is i dont think you should get back together try been friends and if you still have strong feelings and she does to after some time then try again.If you really want to give her a chance.But i dont think its worth hurting yourself over someone 3 times trust me.It sounds like she could be confused or have mixed feelings or could be scared of getting close to someone or many other reasons.Maybe also try having a long talk to her about this and asking her if there is a reason i think that would work out a lot better.Good luck man

Swagging god
March 6th, 2013, 05:32 PM
The first time she broke up with me she asked if we could be friends and I said yes. We talked and 20 days later we were back together I thought she was worth a second chance. This being the second time she broke up with me..... I was thinking she may be emotionally confused. She is 7 years younger than me and so maturity could also be a factor. I don't know I just want to do what is best for the both of us. Any help between now and Sunday is most appreciated, Thanks.

anyone50
March 7th, 2013, 01:35 AM
My advise is to move on unless you enjoy being in an on again off again relationship.

Eth_94123
March 10th, 2013, 11:12 AM
If a relationship doesn't work the first or second time the odds are it's not going to work a third time! :(

Swagging god
April 2nd, 2013, 11:41 AM
Thank your input about 2 weeks ago we both decided not to get back together