Need help!!!!!!

[Miggy_C]

What I'm about to explain is very complicated but I'll try my best.

Me and my girlfriend got together a little bit before I turned 16 and I was madly in love with her and would've done anything for her. She would've done anything for me I'm almost 18 now and all that has changed, for no apparent reason. One day I just woke up and wasn't feeling it anymore. Everyone knows and wants us to get married, our families, our friends and I thought that's what I wanted too, but now it's different.

I devoted everything to her and she did the same for me we're basically a part of each others families as if we were married. She was there for me when me my dad died. She is my best friend in the whole world. That's why this is so hard, I know if I broke up with her it would crush everything and hurt her so much. I couldn't bear doing that to her, at the same time trying to keep up this facade is becoming harder and harder. I love her and I still want her in my life, but not as my girlfriend, just as a friend. She did nothing for me not to love her i'm just not feeling it anymore. Putting it simply, its not her its me. I know that's a cliche but it's true. I just don't feel the same as i used to.

I just don't know what to do. I could use some advice.

[Annabel]

Don,t worry just give a some time for thinking about this matter and after that you should talk with her about it . I you talk about this matter after spending some time its better for you and her .Just realize that you are perfect foe her and she will be happy with you .I think its right thing to do in this situation .

[anyone50]

First off there's nothing you can do thats going to lessen the pain she going to feel when you tell her you don't have the same feeling for her you used to. her thought or question will proably is "is there another girl" I think the best thing to do is let her know and the sooner the better. I don't know enough about your gf to know what she will do but shes going to go through a lot of emotions toward you and one may even be anger and I don't think there much you can do to lessen this. Please don't tell her it's you and not her thats the last thing a girl wants to hear at a time like this. Obviously it does have to do with her since you don't feel the same way towards her anymore. Seldom does the friends thing work after such an exdended relationship, Like you said it was as if you were already married and we all know how those split up work out. Good luck I think you'll need a lot of it to get thru this and i'm not saying this because i'm a girl it's I just know it's goung to be tough to get through this. Let us know how it turns out