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XxcaseyxX
March 5th, 2013, 01:59 PM
hey guys im 15 and i noticed this guy was checking me out the other day but i didnt kno what to say cuz he was def. atleast like 20 i bet. but he was sooooo hott :wub: lol i like girls and some guys my own age but i am more attracted to older guys for some reason. do u guys like older guys too??? and u do u think its weird if a guy thats that old likes a girl my age :confused:

Taryn98
March 5th, 2013, 02:04 PM
Older guys are definitely cute. I'm not sure how old I think is acceptable to do anything with though. But there's nothing wrong with looking right?

XxcaseyxX
March 5th, 2013, 02:08 PM
ya they are sooo hott, thats the thing tho like if im only 15 most guys that are like 20somethin are probably gonna be to scared to do stuff with me...
and ya looking never hurt anyone :P

Taryn98
March 5th, 2013, 02:10 PM
I just wouldn't want the guy or myself to get in trouble more than anything.

XxcaseyxX
March 5th, 2013, 02:13 PM
ya thats the thing i would feel bad if i got the guy in trouble, the law is so dumb sometimes :mad: lol

TinyDancer
March 5th, 2013, 06:13 PM
Yeah some older guys and teachers are so hot. I hope I still feel that way when I'm legal. I would never get someone into trouble.

Amber Bi
March 5th, 2013, 08:13 PM
older guys are hott!!!:whoops:
AND they are way better at.....well, you know

Wanderer_
March 5th, 2013, 08:45 PM
There is a maths thing for this - you divide the guys age by 2 and add 7 - if your age is the smaller than the result it's dodgy apparently
So if he is 20:
20/2= 10
10+7= 17
So at 15 you are 2 years too young to be with him without people saying that's way naughty

TinyDancer
March 5th, 2013, 09:24 PM
There is a maths thing for this - you divide the guys age by 2 and add 7 - if your age is the smaller than the result it's dodgy apparently
So if he is 20:
20/2= 10
10+7= 17
So at 15 you are 2 years too young to be with him without people saying that's way naughty

Very cool! and so true!

Mobalo
March 6th, 2013, 11:07 AM
Yeah I think I have the hots for a man who's way too old for me, but there's nothing wrong with fantasizing, right? :)

XxcaseyxX
March 6th, 2013, 12:59 PM
have any of u guys ever been with an older guy before? if so how much older?

EricaTaylor
March 6th, 2013, 04:42 PM
have any of u guys ever been with an older guy before? if so how much older?

Oldest I've done it with is someone almost 4 years older then me.

Ihaveagun
March 6th, 2013, 06:24 PM
I've been turned on by guys who're way too old for me, being in their 20's and 30's, even. Nothing wrong with a bit of eye candy, is it? ;)

Wanderer_
March 6th, 2013, 09:21 PM
have any of u guys ever been with an older guy before? if so how much older?

Just once on holiday, he was sweet, early 20s and genuinely liked me and I had a big crush- didn't go as far as sex but close- our parents knew each other and I think they may have figured some of it out and spoken and had a word with him because he went to go do other things that trip all if a sudden
Probably for the best but it would have been nice if they asked me first :(

metallic_pink
March 7th, 2013, 02:19 AM
Nothing wrong with having a crush or being in a relationship with an older guy as long as you won't get into trouble like legality issues and other matters.

Kristin_97
March 9th, 2013, 01:24 PM
I've definitely seen some hot guys who are old as in college age, but old as in 50 is just eww.

SammyG17
March 9th, 2013, 06:29 PM
I've been with a few older guys. I won't go into details other than saying older guys have their perks too.

Alley_Cat
March 17th, 2013, 04:14 PM
I've posted this before in another thread but I think it still applies here, who hasn't thought of a much older man in that way and masturbated...Brad Pitt (49), Johnny Depp (49), Bradley Cooper (38), James Franco (34), Jake Gyllenhaal (32), Channing Tatum (32)... Just cause the older man isn't a movie start doesn't mean he isn't m-bate worthy.

amandamanda
March 17th, 2013, 04:25 PM
Older. Guys. Rule. 'nuff said! haha

LilKelli69
March 17th, 2013, 04:49 PM
Yep, dear Amanda! Older guys rock! ;)

SamanthaMaciel
March 17th, 2013, 04:57 PM
older dudes in their 20s yea but imagine an old dick..... yuck

amandamanda
March 18th, 2013, 09:10 AM
Yep, dear Amanda! Older guys rock! ;)

Haha totally. U just gotta be smart about who u tell and where/when hookups happen. For me its usually been older brothers of good friends where i know them and know its safe etc. Random strangers would be tougher cuz u just dont know.

Rainbowfairy
March 18th, 2013, 05:32 PM
Older guys are way better, I know I've had a few and they can drive usually/more money I know that sounds bad but if you got it use it lol

TaylorToo
March 19th, 2013, 08:28 AM
I've taken the plunge with an older guy (30's) just have to be smart about who you tell and what expectations are. Totally worth it btw

Prodigy17
March 19th, 2013, 08:58 AM
Older guys are way better, I know I've had a few and they can drive usually/more money I know that sounds bad but if you got it use it lol

I think that's called being a prostitute ;)

Rainbowfairy
March 19th, 2013, 04:51 PM
I think that's called being a prostitute ;)

Ha smart arse, more money to go places do things don't have to ask for pocket money of there mum and they can drive to the beach instead of getting the buss

amandamanda
March 21st, 2013, 08:25 AM
I've taken the plunge with an older guy (30's) just have to be smart about who you tell and what expectations are. Totally worth it btw

Yah i agree. Expectations matter SO much. For both! But it can be really fun.

mattyrosen
March 24th, 2013, 01:05 PM
I'm not in my 30s so i'm not THAT freakin' old but im a few years older than my gf who is 13 so i can defs say that older guys LIKE younger girls for a bunch of reasons

Fitzy
April 1st, 2013, 10:04 AM
I like older guys I feel naughty with them, like im a toy

Fitzy
April 1st, 2013, 10:07 AM
I like older guys, I feel naughty.
I feel like a toy / pet / slave.
turns me on.

Cali Girl
April 2nd, 2013, 10:45 AM
I like older guys. They are so handsome and sexy. There more mature and take their time.

PandaLeah
April 6th, 2013, 12:24 PM
Be careful hun, just keep it to fantasizing.. and daydreaming.

Reanne
April 27th, 2013, 08:31 PM
Yeah I like older guys too. Someone posted Brad Pitt is 49 OMG like I would do him right now, but thinking about a 49yo sounds off too.

I did an exchange program with school and I stayed with this family and I used to fascinate about the father, he was around 40 and I even spied on him in the shower a few times :P

The oldest I've been with was 17 years older and he knew what to do :yeah:

MartaUK
April 28th, 2013, 06:42 AM
Brad Pitt 49 ? omg ;) I had massive crush on him..

I like older guys much more that younger ones. I don't like childish peeps :p

honeybear
April 28th, 2013, 09:39 AM
my last three boyfriends have been older than I ...I get it from my mom lol my dad is almost 10 years older than she is :D I've had guys as much as 12 years older than I am...I really don't see the issue

San1998
April 29th, 2013, 05:06 PM
I think it is diffrent from man to man. I had once a flirt with someone who was 6 years older then I was. It was kind of fun. But It depense defently on you and the guy.

Rina
April 30th, 2013, 08:23 AM
Older men are about 95% hotter. I personally would like to date only people older than me, not that it matters that much. But, in teen years, dating anyone older than 18 can be trouble. After then, I would prob cap the age off at like 10 years my senior.

amandamanda
April 30th, 2013, 10:05 AM
Older men are about 95% hotter. I personally would like to date only people older than me, not that it matters that much. But, in teen years, dating anyone older than 18 can be trouble. After then, I would prob cap the age off at like 10 years my senior.


my last three boyfriends have been older than I ...I get it from my mom lol my dad is almost 10 years older than she is :D I've had guys as much as 12 years older than I am...I really don't see the issue

U might not see the issue but HE could get in trouble...tho i know that some guys think we're worth the risk i guess and the girl just has to keep it on the d/l. My sis has been with some guys who are prolly WAY too old but like you said, at least 95% hotter than guys her age (and totally sweet to her). They're totally respectful to her and she bosses them around so i think its fine, but i told her early on that she has to just be careful about telling everybody :)

randomnessqueen
April 30th, 2013, 01:05 PM
if hes that old, he shouldnt be interested in someone so young.
i can understand being into someone older, but dont do anything about it.
at that age i dont think i was really into much older guys.
though now, im about that age, so its only natural

jheaven96
June 23rd, 2013, 07:44 AM
my last three boyfriends have been older than I ...I get it from my mom lol my dad is almost 10 years older than she is :D I've had guys as much as 12 years older than I am...I really don't see the issue

wow, smart girl! i dont see an issue either

indoxyl
June 23rd, 2013, 07:54 AM
my last boyfriend was 7 years older than me. he was pretty awesome,knew what he wanted in life. had his shit together. so it was nice in that sense.

SkootuGurl
June 23rd, 2013, 08:44 AM
Older guys definitely make way better lovers.

Staci
June 23rd, 2013, 11:11 AM
I definately prefer older guys, for a whole lotta reasons!

ElliEvens
June 23rd, 2013, 12:18 PM
There is a maths thing for this - you divide the guys age by 2 and add 7 - if your age is the smaller than the result it's dodgy apparently
So if he is 20:
20/2= 10
10+7= 17
So at 15 you are 2 years too young to be with him without people saying that's way naughty

Ha that is soo cool. I think i heard this once but forgot? But it only works if you are over 18 anyway because if not then there could be big trouble. But thinking they are hot, that is totally normal. I see older boys all the time I think are super hot.

Lola115
June 24th, 2013, 04:29 AM
Older guys are the best, I've had a 22 year old and he was amazing!

kryptonite
June 24th, 2013, 04:20 PM
There is a maths thing for this - you divide the guys age by 2 and add 7 - if your age is the smaller than the result it's dodgy apparently
So if he is 20:
20/2= 10
10+7= 17
So at 15 you are 2 years too young to be with him without people saying that's way naughty

If he's 20 and she's 15, she's under the age of consent. But if he's 30 and she's 25, there's nothing wrong with that, IMO.

GigglyAbby
June 24th, 2013, 08:53 PM
I prefer no more than a year or 2 older right now

graci
June 28th, 2013, 01:44 AM
Id be too worried about my mind being blown lol

Roni
July 9th, 2013, 12:37 PM
I think if you are not much older than it is OK.The older people can learn a lot in all areas.

melissa13
October 8th, 2013, 02:53 PM
My first guy was way older, i had no problem with it, he was very nice and gentle, and made sure i came first.

Shortie
October 8th, 2013, 07:53 PM
Only guy I've been with is about 12 years older and he is also amazing!! He makes sure I'm looked after and it feels comfy. If your 15 oo under I wouldn't see a 27 year old but 17 or above I think you're old enough to make your own choices =)

Theekshana
October 8th, 2013, 09:00 PM
I'm glad that there are a lot more like me out there who like older guys. some guys in their 20's and 30's are so cute and hot and know what they are doing :)

highschool
October 8th, 2013, 09:51 PM
older guys are great. But at 15 I wouldn't waste my time with them, cause sure you can make out and stuff..but if you want to get any further you'd have to wait 3 years. I don''t know it depends on the girl/couple and how far they want to go/how willing they are to wait

cozyjosie
October 10th, 2013, 10:09 AM
Don't they say age is only a number? Forget the math and enjoy. I do.

Harley Quinn
October 10th, 2013, 11:16 AM
This was bumped. :locked: