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onekid
March 4th, 2013, 01:02 AM
Well, I'm physically attracted to other guys, but not really emotionally attracted. Like I wouldn't date a guy, but a I would do "stuff" with a guy. Am I bi?:confused:

PinkFloyd
March 4th, 2013, 01:05 AM
Nope. That's curiousoty. It's VERY common with kids from age 12 to 22. Nothin gay or bi about it.

ReginaGeorge
March 4th, 2013, 01:16 AM
This would be better in the Sexuality forum, but anyway.

Like Rob said, it's totally possible you are just curious. During your teens when you hormones are adjusting, lots of teenagers become slightly sexually attracted to the same-sex. When puberty starts to finish up, it usually goes away and you discover your true sexuality.

Also though, what you describe is also very common as an actual sexuality. Bisexual would be the right term. But along with sexual orientation, there is a thing called romantic orientation, that works the same way. it describe who you can have feelings for. People often use it when their sexual orientation and their romantic orientation don't match up, so they have to differentiate between the two. From this post, you could what is called a heteroromantic bisexual, which mean you have romantic feelings for the opposite sex, but sexual attractions to both sexes. And it's completely normal.

And branching out from that, some heteromantics only like to see the same-sex 'in action' and don't want to touch, others do want to touch. Some straight people also like watch the same-sex 'in action', it doesn't make them less straight. Sexuality is fluid, it constantly changes.

Don't start panicking, because these both are just possibilities. Don't worry too much about it, you're young. You're growing. You're getting to know yourself. Give yourself some time to really recognize your feelings and attractions before you start throwing your sexuality around. Whatever you turn out to be, don't to figure it out now, it is a long process, whether you are gay, bi, straight, or heteroromantic bisexual. You're okay, kid.

anyone50
March 4th, 2013, 04:08 AM
Yea I agree it's more curiosity and harmones that are responsible. If you want to do stuff with other guys but haven't yet that may make you bi curious.

JoshMacca95
March 4th, 2013, 06:10 AM
To me it sounds like a bit of curiosity. Certainly not gay, and i wouldn't say you were quite bi either.

JakeJakeJake
March 4th, 2013, 09:25 PM
Horny probably

jack787
March 4th, 2013, 09:30 PM
Well, I'm physically attracted to other guys, but not really emotionally attracted. Like I wouldn't date a guy, but a I would do "stuff" with a guy. Am I bi?:confused:

Same here. It is probably just curiosity

eddward
March 4th, 2013, 09:33 PM
I vote normal and horny.

onekid
March 4th, 2013, 09:42 PM
Well, this is good news to my ears (eyes?). Noy that I would care f I was bi. But I have homophobe's for parents. So hopefully I'll turn out "normal".:)

redneckgal
March 5th, 2013, 12:17 AM
Well I think it is definately normal and curiousity and you possibly could be bisexual. I think truthfully that we all are kind of bisexual in a lot of ways.

dvd333
March 5th, 2013, 12:54 AM
Definitely curious

Wanderer_
March 5th, 2013, 04:03 AM
I think that makes you pretty normal and just more open minded and questioning than most, doesn't mean you are anything requiring a label

ReginaGeorge
March 5th, 2013, 04:07 AM
Can everyone please stop saying "normal".

Sexuality is normal no matter what it is.

Bisexual is still normal. Gay is still normal.

Fuck.

Stuey1
March 5th, 2013, 11:33 AM
curious your 14?

XxcaseyxX
March 5th, 2013, 12:57 PM
i dn i like girls and guys, sometimes i think i like girls more tho

kingmods
March 11th, 2013, 08:10 PM
ya i agree with everyone else it is normal and i feel the same way

dontfiguremeout
March 11th, 2013, 08:12 PM
Puberty Both :arrow: Teen Sexuality. This is a better forum for this thread. You'll get more help here.

Jakey116
March 12th, 2013, 05:13 AM
Well, I'm physically attracted to other guys, but not really emotionally attracted. Like I wouldn't date a guy, but a I would do "stuff" with a guy. Am I bi?:confused:

As everyone else has stated, it's just curiosity buddy.. A lot of ppl have it but will neve own up so don't fret :D