what exatly is the big deal with sex?

[Smc711]

I mean yeah it can be slightly pleasureble...im guessing...but sometimes i get urdes and cant control myself and i have to masturbate...sometimes in the middle of class just because a pretty girl showed a bit of cleavage....idk i just think we take sex a bit far and make it more than it is...reproduction. if u have any comments please feel free to say what u think. I guess my question is : what is the big deal?

[pollier92]

i think its such a big deal cause every one can pleasure from it

[anyone50]

I guess sex can mean many different things to as many different people we are all unique in this way. The one thing I believe is so special about sex is that only humans with the possible exception of primates and dolphins have sex for reasons other than reproduction.

I'm slightly confused by your statement that you find it hard to control your urge to masturbate when seeing something sexual on a girl such as her clevage. Does this mean you view sex as more a primal instict? I think the humans ability to be able to control their sexual behavior is also something special well most humans anyway.

[Ryhanna]

The thing is, it's not just reproduction. Sure, the main purpose of sex is reproduction. But we also (and far more often) have sex because it's fun and it feels good.

I don't really think that there's anything wrong with that. Sometimes our hormones get the better of us, but that's life. :)

[Wanderer_]

It's a very spiritual thing to a lot of people - allows a physical and emotional bond to be super strong by sharing such intimacy and making someone feel incredible

[Smc711]

Thank you. Ig ur right.

[dvd333]

I mean yeah it can be slightly pleasureble...im guessing...but sometimes i get urdes and cant control myself and i have to masturbate...sometimes in the middle of class just because a pretty girl showed a bit of cleavage....idk i just think we take sex a bit far and make it more than it is...reproduction. if u have any comments please feel free to say what u think. I guess my question is : what is the big deal?

Humans are programmed to like it. Its how we've survived. Its simple evolution.

[LuisFer]

I think the deal is that it feels amazing! And also if you're in a relationship is a way of showing love and confidence in each other

[Jason98]

Its a part of human nature and it feels great. Making love is amazing.

[Jakers61]

I think it's a big deal since so many young people are doing it now. I know a 14 year old pregnant girl. Everyone is doing it..

[Naue]

It's all to do with hormone release and the effect that has on your body.

Puberty is a time of serious chemical change in your body. Behind turned on is normal, controlling the urges is sometimes difficult.

I was told to think of something disgusting like worms or whatever, that doesn't really work now.

Find something that turns you off, and just think about it.

[JoeHillsTSD]

It's the dopamine man, the dopamine. Haha, but seriously, sex has not only been an instinct for humans, but a brand. Everywhere we turn, sex is there. Whether it be that hot girl advertising the new sandwich at BK, or the two people in the heat of love in that new movie trailer. It HAS become overrated, and though it is supposed to be pleasurable, sex is originally supposed to be for reproduction and the bonding of two close couples.