Sexuality

[yodanick1098]

Hey. I can't deside my sexuality. Am I straight,bi,gay? You see I watch porn a lot to jerk off. I watch both gay porn and normal porn but inwardly gay porn more. I also read playboys a lot. The girls in there always give me a boner. I like a girl in my class but I also like a boy in my class I like those two people both emotionally and sexually. I can't tell if I am gay or straight or bi. This really concerns me. Please help.

[dontfiguremeout]

Puberty Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. This isn't puberty.

[justin101]

Hey. I can't deside my sexuality. Am I straight,bi,gay? You see I watch porn a lot to jerk off. I watch both gay porn and normal porn but inwardly gay porn more. I also read playboys a lot. The girls in there always give me a boner. I like a girl in my class but I also like a boy in my class I like those two people both emotionally and sexually. I can't tell if I am gay or straight or bi. This really concerns me. Please help.

I understand where you come from, I use to feel that way. Have you ever kissed a boy or girl? It could be easier to tell that way, but if not than maybe try getting to know these people. Maybe you like this boy because he is also going through what you are, and this girl because that is what " society " tell you that you should like. Try to get to know them and if possible maybe date them. And you don't need to label yourself. Be who you are and be proud. There is no need for all this sexuality confusion. But if you must label it, than wait it out and see if those feelings change. Hope I helped. :yes:

[Misfit]

Well bud no one here can tell you if you are gay, bi or straight that conclusion is up to you, however the fact that you have a crush on each sex as well as 'enjoying' porn of both genders indicates to be that there is probable chance that are you are Bi-sexual.

That being said sexuality is fluid in many people and is subject to change so you may go one way or the other or maybe just stay liking both sexes who knows.
I'm guessing you are still young so why bother putting a label on yourself, love whoever you want to love mate, screw societies labels.

-Bondi

[ReginaGeorge]

From the information in this post, it sounds like you are bisexual, BUT, I can't give you a definite answer, nor cane anyone else on here. Other possibilities from that are also pansexual, and polysexual. Only you can figure it out. You know yourself more than we do. Sexuality is, like Andrew said, fluid, it changes, it varies in intensity and your 'favourite' type of person will vary, all the time, constantly. Don't worry too much about labels, labels are there to help us describe ourselves, not classify ourselves as a certain thing or person, they do not define us. They fit you, you don't have to fit them.
:)

[JAT14]

Ok if you like a girl then being gay is automatically marked off. Since you like a guy too then being 100% straight is marked off too. That means you are either bi or curious. You could like one sex better than the other and still be bi. It doesn't have to be 50% 50%. It could be 75% girls 25% guys, etc

[StoneColdNicky]

You don't really need to decide anything. The day will come when you just kind of realise.

[Skitty]

I agree with everything stated above. And personally, I'd try not to put a label on it. Just be you, whoever that happens to be at the time. :3

[Eth_94123]

You sound to me that you are probably bi, but only you can decided what your sexuality is :)

[yodanick1098]

The reason I am trying to label it is because a lot of kids at school don't like me. The way I am gay and things like that. They think I have a boner all the time in the locker room and every where else. They say come out of the closet to me. It is at a point that I finally just want to know before info emo. And even worse I am going to Washington, D.C. with my schools junior high and we have to be in groups of 4 guys in a hotel room and we have to change in there with them and shower in there with them and I am afraid that I will get a boner and then that will make it worse for me.