View Full Version : Telling your crush (gay)
Polo2847
March 3rd, 2013, 11:45 PM
So has anyone ever told their crush that you like him? To a girl, I think it would be a normal reaction, but with the same sex, how did he react?
Mark20
March 3rd, 2013, 11:47 PM
haha he reacted well. lol he was gay i was straight curious or bi whatever hah and he was just happy that i felt the same way about him that he felt about me.
justin101
March 3rd, 2013, 11:49 PM
The guys I like is strait but he over heard me taking about him and he is really cool about it. I'm still convinced that he is not strait! Lol
minimoya
March 4th, 2013, 12:17 AM
My guy I'm determined he's straight. Took it well though, and was respectful of it.
JAT14
March 4th, 2013, 01:17 AM
My crush is sadly straight :( he got all weirded out and was like " I'm not gay" and so I told him that I wasn't gay and how I was bi and he las like " same thing" (it's not the same at all!)
PatrickSnM
March 4th, 2013, 01:20 AM
I would literally pee all over... i dont think i could ever tell a guy i like that i like him haha... but if it ever does i will let you know
Buck
March 4th, 2013, 02:09 AM
never happened to me :c
Joseph69
March 4th, 2013, 10:28 AM
I told someone who I liked and he just said that he's straight and always will be.
stew4rt
March 4th, 2013, 11:01 AM
He took it extremely well which suprised me me when he told me he was straight and we're still really close friends today.
pineinchneis
March 9th, 2013, 07:46 PM
the friendship between us had always been a bit awkward/uncertain but when i told him (he already knew i was gay) he took it really well and said he was truly flattered but that he was straight. why are these guys always straight?!
spl23456
March 9th, 2013, 07:53 PM
haha he reacted well. lol he was gay i was straight curious or bi whatever hah and he was just happy that i felt the same way about him that he felt about me.
So then what happened, did you start going out?
Tinker
March 9th, 2013, 08:08 PM
I've had good and bad experience
Mark20
March 10th, 2013, 02:37 AM
So then what happened, did you start going out?
yeah we did... briefly
dontfiguremeout
March 10th, 2013, 10:09 PM
Puberty Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. This is a better placement.
Atonement
March 10th, 2013, 10:13 PM
I've told people I'm interested in them on multiple occasions. Typically, it's easier if I know they're gay. If I know they're straight, I am a bit more careful about it because I don't want to offend, put off, or insult them. Most the straight men to whom I've told that I'm attracted to them took it very well and were quite flattered. Quite a few a good friends.
Skitty
March 10th, 2013, 11:17 PM
Well, I'm kind of in that pickle right now. I recently found out my crush is bi curious so I may make a move... :P
Faolan
March 12th, 2013, 10:12 PM
I'm in the process of trying to tell my bi friend that I'm bi too and that I have a crush on him, but its REALLY HARD.
spotlessmind
March 12th, 2013, 11:17 PM
he said "Chill Nig. I ain't gay."
lol....im not nig tho...
Polo2847
March 14th, 2013, 03:32 AM
he said "Chill Nig. I ain't gay."
lol....im not nig tho...
haha that's funny :lol:
LiamC
March 16th, 2013, 09:09 AM
Well I know my crush is straight, so I don't see any point in telling him that I've fallen for him since he's one of my best friends and I don't want to jeopardise our friendship by potentially making it awkward.... He's completely fine with me being gay (really supportive actually and always willing to listen to my rants about gay stuff) and I have gone as far as saying 'you're not ugly, you're hot' when he was on about how he must be ugly or something because he hasn't had a serious girlfriend. He was flattered by that and just said 'aww thank you' and put his arm around me in a sort of 'bro-hug' way.
Tbh I always hug him and make sexual banter so he probably has some idea anyway :p
Twilly F. Sniper
March 16th, 2013, 01:00 PM
Im certain one of them is straight, and I think that likely the other is too :(
I hate that I live in the place that has a serious lack of my sexuality ( in men especially :( )
I would love a day when a new boy, that obviously likes other boys, comes to my school. That would be the best day of my life :D
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