Mom calling constantly...

[Mister_Fantastic]

Ok so my mom will constantly tell me i need to get out of the house, but then she will always call back telling me to come home. Like one time me and my friend were out to eat, then went to the hobby lobby... and then when we left, she called and b*tched at me for something that wasn't true. Situations like this keep happening and its to the point were the friends parents check to make sure i wont have to leave in the middle of the night.. What do i do at this point? thoughts? Thank you in advance

[Misfit]

Ok so my mom will constantly tell me i need to get out of the house, but then she will always call back telling me to come home. Like one time me and my friend were out to eat, then went to the hobby lobby... and then when we left, she called and b*tched at me for something that wasn't true. Situations like this keep happening and its to the point were the friends parents check to make sure i wont have to leave in the middle of the night.. What do i do at this point? thoughts? Thank you in advance

What I would do is sit her down over a cup of coffee or something and calmly explain to her what you're thinking an how her actions are affecting you, this also gives her a chance to explain her reasoning behind her calling constantly. The fact that is is a repetitive action makes me believe that there's a reason why she keeps calling you home, it might simply be because she is worried about you, maybe feels more comfortable with you at home, I can't say but you should try and address the issue when it comes to light.

You need to explain to her that it isn't fair on you nor the parents of the friends you are staying at, and if you think you can get away with it explain to her before you go somewhere that you won't be coming back until a certain time unless there's some sort of emergency.

Hope I helped in someway or another

-Bondi

[Mister_Fantastic]

I have to try that sometime, thank you a bunch Bondi

[Misfit]

Anytime mate.

[AbbaZabba]

Sounds like a Mom, and my advice is deal with it. It's your mom and she isn't going to change. Here's something I received from my mom when I was 13. Pretty well sums it up.

I will always be your parent first and your friend second. I will stalk you, flip out on you, lecture you, drive you insane, be your worst nightmare, and track you down like a bloodhound when I have to, because I love you. When you understand that, I will know you have become a responsible adult. You will never find anyone else in your life, that loves, cares, prays and worries about you than I do. If you don’t mutter under your breath “I Hate You” at least once in your life, then I am not doing my job. Your Mom