Need Some Advice

[Dcj2]

Theres a girl that i really like and im really into her but her parents are crazy strict with her and dont let her do much another than with a big group on weekends. and since we go to the same church that is the only way i ever get to see her. (i dont hang out with the people from church [there weird])

how can i get closer with her? and how can i start talking to her? shes really pretty. and as of now i know that her parents have scared away and said no to all of the guys that have been interested in her. and most of the time the dad wants someone that will stick around for marage or something, also the dad likes me alot so i dont know what to do. help please

[tundravortex]

well just go up to her and be yourself and hope for the best

[Synyster Shadows]

that's the best way to put it, the exact thing I would've said.

[Second Chance]

I would start out slow and try to hang out with the girl you like what you both are at church. If her parents see that you are a church going guy and respect her while you both are in public places, then they might eventually give you the benefit of the doubt. Since you really like the girl, then you might need to hang out with the church group so that you can get close with her. Since her parents are strict there is no other way you can get close to her.

Everything depends on how old you and the girl are, and if you both are in junior high, then her parents will probably be strict for a while. For the time being try to get to know her while you both hang out at church or any other public event. Also try to be really nice to her parents so that they will feel comfortable with you. While you might not be able to go out on a date with the girl anytime soon if you can at least go over to her house while her parents are around, then you should shoot for that. In the meantime the most you probably can do is hang out with the girl at church since that is the only place where she is allowed to hang out with others.

[Annabel]

I would start out slow and try to hang out with the girl you like what you both are at church. If her parents see that you are a church going guy and respect her while you both are in public places, then they might eventually give you the benefit of the doubt. Everything depends on how old you and the girl are, and if you both are in junior high, then her parents will probably be strict for a while. For the time being try to get to know her while you both hang out at church or any other public event. Also try to be really nice to her parents so that they will feel comfortable with you. While you might not be able to go out on a date with the girl anytime soon if you can at least go over to her house while her parents are around, then you should shoot for that.

I think its right and you need to carry on with it .

[Dcj2]

I would start out slow and try to hang out with the girl you like what you both are at church. If her parents see that you are a church going guy and respect her while you both are in public places, then they might eventually give you the benefit of the doubt. Since you really like the girl, then you might need to hang out with the church group so that you can get close with her. Since her parents are strict there is no other way you can get close to her.

thats true.
im going to try that and hope it works

[anyone50]

If the dad already likes you then I would say persue that end. If her parents are the only road block to you being able to date her then logic says let the parents get to know you. How to do this you say. There are a couple ways first you said you see her at church and even thopugh you don't want to hang out there take part in activities that will let you get closer to her parents. If thats a hard pill to swallow then maybe you could do it the way they did over 100 yrs ago. you court her under the supervision of her parents so they can get to know you by going to her house and spending time with her there when her parents are home. This is the path my bf took since he was what older than me and my parents were a little against my seeing him at first. it worked and now they let us date. Hope this helps

[Dcj2]

If the dad already likes you then I would say persue that end. If her parents are the only road block to you being able to date her then logic says let the parents get to know you. How to do this you say. There are a couple ways first you said you see her at church and even thopugh you don't want to hang out there take part in activities that will let you get closer to her parents. If thats a hard pill to swallow then maybe you could do it the way they did over 100 yrs ago. you court her under the supervision of her parents so they can get to know you by going to her house and spending time with her there when her parents are home. This is the path my bf took since he was what older than me and my parents were a little against my seeing him at first. it worked and now they let us date. Hope this helps

thats great thank you,

[Dcj2]

I would start out slow and try to hang out with the girl you like what you both are at church. If her parents see that you are a church going guy and respect her while you both are in public places, then they might eventually give you the benefit of the doubt. Since you really like the girl, then you might need to hang out with the church group so that you can get close with her. Since her parents are strict there is no other way you can get close to her.

Everything depends on how old you and the girl are, and if you both are in junior high, then her parents will probably be strict for a while. For the time being try to get to know her while you both hang out at church or any other public event. Also try to be really nice to her parents so that they will feel comfortable with you. While you might not be able to go out on a date with the girl anytime soon if you can at least go over to her house while her parents are around, then you should shoot for that. In the meantime the most you probably can do is hang out with the girl at church since that is the only place where she is allowed to hang out with others.

i have tried it, and its hard but i guess i just have to continue till we can talk the right way

[Dcj2]

I think its right and you need to carry on with it .

i sure will