is this bad?

[dvd333]

Im in a commited relationship with my gf. As most of you know, im a foot fetishist... my question is: do you think its bad if i look at other girl's feet? I dont do it when im with her...

[Naue]

Not really, no.

[Jinxxy]

Of course it's not bad! I know it arouses you, but at least you aren't looking at the other girl's genitals or breasts.

[dvd333]

Of course it's not bad! I know it arouses you, but at least you aren't looking at the other girl's genitals or breasts.

Thats true. I do look but not to the point where id do anything about it...feet=genitals to me....

[dvd333]

Not really, no.

Thank you

[anyone50]

since you admit to having a foot fetish i'm guessing that when you look at other girls feet it does arouse you. So what are you really asking is this cheating or at least being mentally unfaithful to your gf?. The answer is proably the second one if your in a relationship and you look at other girls to become aroused I would put this in the same catagory as a guy who has a gf and looks at other girls boobs or legs dosen't matter what part in a manner that most would consider as objectifying her. It's a slippery slope many have fell

[dvd333]

since you admit to having a foot fetish i'm guessing that when you look at other girls feet it does arouse you. So what are you really asking is this cheating or at least being mentally unfaithful to your gf?. The answer is proably the second one if your in a relationship and you look at other girls to become aroused I would put this in the same catagory as a guy who has a gf and looks at other girls boobs or legs dosen't matter what part in a manner that most would consider as objectifying her. It's a slippery slope many have fell

Its not a conscious action though. It just happens. I dont even fantasize..

[pollier92]

depends i guess

[pollier92]

your not jackin of to other girls feet right

[anyone50]

Of course it's not bad! I know it arouses you, but at least you aren't looking at the other girl's genitals or breasts.

To him the feet are just as arousing as breast and vaginas. He has admitted that he has a foot fetish so for him it's the same difference when he looks at other girls feet as it would be for a guy that is aroused by the site of breast and vaginas. Everyone looks and it's normal to do so when you see someone thats attractive, but when your in a relationship with someone engaging in this activity because it arouses you is getting pretty close to the line between what is considered normal voyerism.

[dvd333]

your not jackin of to other girls feet right

Nope