Confused.. (?)

[Alexrs123]

Me and my friend (we're both guys) are always messing about. Like saying sexual stuff to each other and bending each other over and pretending to fuck each other. Sometimes we act like in a relationship and tell each other that we love each other. I am bi-sexual but i am unsure of my friend.. Lately i've realised i have feelings for him (like a crush) and i keep thinking he's giving me signals but im not sure if this is just wishfull thinking. I was staying over at his place when he started stripping to his underwears and pretend to fuck me...I'm really confused because he is sometimes really intimate with me. I'm closet bi and often fantasize about us in a relationship. I can't tell if he has feelings for me or if im just thinking too deeply.

I need help or an advice.

[tundravortex]

well thats when u try to go alittle further if he doesnt than that means he doesnt have feelings but if he does go alittle further than some things happening there

[Skitty]

well thats when u try to go alittle further if he doesnt than that means he doesnt have feelings but if he does go alittle further than some things happening there

Agreed. Also, try telling him that you are interested in guys as well as girls. Maybe you opening up to him will cause him to reveal a bit about himself. Good luck! :3

[tundravortex]

yea wat skitty said

[Alexrs123]

Agreed. Also, try telling him that you are interested in guys as well as girls. Maybe you opening up to him will cause him to reveal a bit about himself. Good luck! :3

i dont think i would be able to talk openly to him... Because i want to be 100% sure before opening myself to someone... Or else it may ruin my whole life... Any other advices? :3

[Skitty]

i dont think i would be able to talk openly to him... Because i want to be 100% sure before opening myself to someone... Or else it may ruin my whole life... Any other advices? :3

Truly understandable, it took me quite a while until I actually ever told anybody. Perhaps some experimenting :P It is usually a circumstantial thing though. If he is willing to take his pants off and pretend to do you, I have a feeling he probably isn't 100% straight ;) However, I would try and play it as safe as possible. Friendships can be delicate things, and I would hate to see you loose yours. :3

[Alexrs123]

Truly understandable, it took me quite a while until I actually ever told anybody. Perhaps some experimenting :P It is usually a circumstantial thing though. If he is willing to take his pants off and pretend to do you, I have a feeling he probably isn't 100% straight ;) However, I would try and play it as safe as possible. Friendships can be delicate things, and I would hate to see you loose yours. :3

Thanks ^^, any suggestions on what kind of experiments i could try?

[Skitty]

Thanks ^^, any suggestions on what kind of experiments i could try?

Sure, but I wont be able to go into detail for a few reasons. One of which being these things are very circumstantial, so try whatever feels right to to at the time. Also, there are some regulations on to what I can and can't say here. I tried to keep it vague but it didn't work well. If I crossed any rules please tell me, I meant no harm. :)

Try watching porn while hes over, keep it straight stuff :P. Eventually there is a really good chance both of you will get aroused, and try masturbating with him, or something.

I also find the "Awkward Game" quite useful. Just try touching him in increasingly inappropriate places until he says stop, or you decide to. Winner doesn't stop.

Again, I hope this helps and didn't cross posting restrictions. :3

[Alexrs123]

ahh thanks! i appreciate the help.

[Skitty]

ahh thanks! i appreciate the help.

No problem buddi. :3

[Alexrs123]

Any suggestions on how should i act near him tho?

[Mister_Fantastic]

I come from a similar situation with a good friend of mine, but I am straight and he is bisexual and i don't have feeling for him but w.e.

[Dcj2]

experiment,
better to try, than to never know if it will even happen