Please!! :(

[yupthatsme]

So, I'm a triplet and my brothers bully me. I'm the youngest of the three of us and it's usually the middle one, Angelo, that bullies me. Even though the oldest of us, Arieli, doesn't do it too often, he never steps in to help me. Angelo usually bullies me physically. He punches me and kicks me and slaps me and pushes me into things and throws things at me and I'm not sure how much more of it I can take. He says that he only does that because I either deserve it or that he's "helping me by toughening me up".

He hurts me really bad all the time and my self-esteem is nonexistent and I'm always covered in bruises and cuts but I'm afraid to tell. I'm scared that he'll hurt me worse. Once he broke my wrist and I had to tell my mom that I fell out of a tree. I just...don't know what to do anymore. If someone could help me or give me any advice, that'd be amazing.

[xoxoMaAn1o]

Hey.
I really don't know what to say 'coz I've never been bullied that much. However, I think you should let your parents know. Seek for help. Tell that to someone close to you - someone who'll understand you. We understand you. We know how you feel. But we aren't there close to you fight for you.
Your parents deserve to know. And about that thing that your brother's "helping you by toughening you up?", HE SUCKS, man. He's a coward by toughening you that way. Once your parents already know and your brother's not picking up on you anymore, please tell him my message: HE'S AN ASS.

Cheer up, Babe. I know you'll get through it. We're here to help in any way we could:*

[yupthatsme]

Ok, thanks. I was thinking about fighting back, but I don't know. I mean after all, I've been doing judo for some months now so technically I stand a chance, but I'm still afraid for some reason.

[xoxoMaAn1o]

Ok, thanks. I was thinking about fighting back, but I don't know. I mean after all, I've been doing judo for some months now so technically I stand a chance, but I'm still afraid for some reason.

You don't have to fight back. Seriously. Defend for yourself in some other ways. Hurting your brother as well won't help. It will only make the situation worse than before. That's for my own opinion tho.

[Wanderer_]

If you're identical you could always take embarrassing photos and put them out there saying it's them until they leave you alone

[ProudConservative]

If you're identical you could always take embarrassing photos and put them out there saying it's them until they leave you alone
LOL, I would so do this. Tell your mother. Fighting will get you no where, and most likely grounded because your brother, I'm assuming, will say you hit him for no reason. That is a lose-lose situation, tell your mom, or see a guidance counsellor.

[Wanderer_]

... frame them for a crime you committed...

[Stryker125]

You need to tell your parents. Your brother shouldn't be treating you the way he does, and telling your parents is the best thing to do in this situation. Talk to him. Let him know how he's making you feel by treating you the way he does, and ask him to stop. He's your brother, and probably loves you and should respect you. Also, you need to defend yourself. I never think violence is the way to solve anything, but you'd be surprised at what good kick to the jaw can do for some people. That should only ever be a last resort though. I hope things work out for you. :)

[yupthatsme]

I did beat him up. Sorry to all of you guys that said I shouldn't. It was an "in the moment" kinda thing but ever since then, he hasn't messed with me. And it's not that he's ignoring me, either. Yesterday he asked me to help him with something. I think he's afraid of me now!! This is amazing!! :D And yeah, we are identical and I'm definitely considering that embarrassing picture idea hahaha. Either that or act like him and do something really embarrassing at school.

[Shadow]

I would suggest you contact law enforcement because not only is this considered assault but it is also considered endangerment of the welfare of a child. He is not allowed to do this to you by any standards.

[PinkFloyd]

This is going to sound stupid, but if you are being seriously injured by him, you should carry something on you. It could be a pocket knife or whatever. I mean with that you have some defense on your side.

[yupthatsme]

Well I don't want to stab my brother. I mean, thanks for giving a suggestion, but yea. And it's fine now. :) Ever since I beat him up, things have been fine between us. He hasn't done anything else.

[Shadow]

Well I don't want to stab my brother. I mean, thanks for giving a suggestion, but yea. And it's fine now. :) Ever since I beat him up, things have been fine between us. He hasn't done anything else.

I'm glad to hear that everything is alright and that you are okay. I wish you the best of luck.

[Stryker125]

Glad to hear things are working out for you!

[Jakey116]

To be honest, best idea would be to act tougher then you are... In most kids fights, the person with the bigger bark, so to say wins.. Scream louder, act more aggressive

[rocketsheep]

fffff

[Texas warrior]

Tell your mom, It may be hard but things wont get better until you do.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Hmmm i know the situation..... I think go talk with someone you feel comfortable with and discuss your feelings and say how worried you are. You dont want this to contiue as you will end up being scared by him witch you dont want.