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NUGGETMAN1
March 2nd, 2013, 11:31 AM
I really like this one girl in my class, but she is not interested in me. Any way I can change her mind? If you have a gf, what worked for you?:wub:
StoppingTime
March 2nd, 2013, 11:32 AM
Puberty 101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating.
sampelly5
March 2nd, 2013, 12:01 PM
all u gotta do is start texting her and she will start to like u as long as u arent boring when u do it. avoid saying nothing, idk and other plain stuff like that. and dont come on 2 strong or she will think you r creepy
Harley Quinn
March 2nd, 2013, 12:24 PM
You can't force someone to feel attracted to you, they either do or they don't. I think that if she isn't interested, you need to find someone that is. There is no use in chasing after someone that you can't have, you'll just end up hurt. Like I said, you can't force feelings, if she isn't interested, you need to leave it at that.
Leon03
March 2nd, 2013, 05:58 PM
If you found out that she is not interested in you by talking to her and being around her then there is almost no chance to change her mind.
If you are just waiting for her to make the first move (which doesn't mean she was not interested in you) you should try to atract her attention by talking to her and being around her.
PinkFloyd
March 2nd, 2013, 06:05 PM
Well I didn't use stupid pickup lines or try and act like something I'm not. I just asked if she wanted to move to the next level and she said she wanted to ask the same thing to me. You just need to be open and honest with this girl. If you get to text her and she asks what you are doing, do NOT say "idk" or "nothin." Tell her what it is youre doing, and why so that you can strike up a convo!
-Rob
CastigateMe
March 3rd, 2013, 01:29 AM
You don't just "make" her like you.
She either does, or she doesn't.
Get to know her better, and do kind things for her, make her feel special, but do not be angry and/or overly-upset if she does not like you in a manner that is not strictly friendly, and for goodness sake, please do not use the term "friend-zone."
Just talk to her, hold a conversation with her, help her if she needs help, laugh with her, and such. Do not be pushy about a relationship, and do not be too clingy.
anyone50
March 3rd, 2013, 01:32 PM
If the reason she's not interested in you is because she dosen't know you very well than i would say you might have a chance slim as it may be and you can explore this by letter her get to know you. It's been said that a girl makes up her mind in the first few seconds of meeting a guy to which degree she will consider him boy friend material or the dreaded lets be friends. While i find this a far to simplistic statement i belive it has it's roots in the chemistry that goes on between people when they meet for the first time. my advise is to just be yourself and if it's meant to be it will happen. You can't make it happen on your own it takes two to have a relationship.
NUGGETMAN1
March 3rd, 2013, 02:14 PM
Well, I don't have her phone number. And I always talk to her, but she thinks me to be a bit weird.
Naue
March 3rd, 2013, 02:15 PM
No, I don't have a girlfriend.
That's strange considering I'm gay lolxxx
Miggy_C
March 6th, 2013, 10:48 AM
Me and my girlfriend was a long and complicated sorry, but what worked for me in the end was i became, her friend and we tasked and textef a lot. If you do that things will work themselves out eventually.
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