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yupthatsme
March 1st, 2013, 09:44 PM
So for the past couple of months I've kinda been..."losing control" so to speak. Whenever I masturbate it takes a lot less time for me to finish and it's kinda concerning me. Like, before it would take like 15 minutes and now it takes maybe 5 if I'm lucky. Even when I try to take it slower, I end up finishing fast. I can't help it. What do I do?!

Second Chance
March 1st, 2013, 10:42 PM
I think the most important thing you can do is to make sure that you don't have things distracting you from jacking off. What I mean is that if you have problems that are making your mind wander, then that can definitely make jacking off less fun. Also, if you are in the middle of puberty, then keep in mind that you probably are going to get off a lot quicker than when you were just starting out in puberty. I would say don't focus so much on your time but just have fun. If you finish early, then don't worry because if you do, then you can always try again next time. Try edging, and if that does not work, just make sure your mind is clear and that you are looking at things that really turn you on.

Jake17133
March 2nd, 2013, 12:00 AM
Just continue its fine

GabAngel06
March 2nd, 2013, 12:07 AM
That's because you're making it a habit to masturbate. The longer you do this routine, the faster you can finish it. Though it's normal, you just need to be careful. A lot of people die in overuse, just saying.

Jake_00
March 4th, 2013, 10:19 PM
I finish quick also

IAMWILL
March 4th, 2013, 10:28 PM
That's because you're making it a habit to masturbate. The longer you do this routine, the faster you can finish it. Though it's normal, you just need to be careful. A lot of people die in overuse, just saying.

Everything he posted is completely incorrect.

I think the problem is mental. If you feel anxious or nervous about finishing too fast, its not going to help. Try and relax, and just go slow. If you really want to last longer, you could try distracting yourself. Dont think about your fantasies or whatever, just focus on something else.

JAT14
March 5th, 2013, 12:18 AM
Just try to gain self control

Tinker
March 5th, 2013, 12:37 AM
It's ok it's perfectly fine just a part of life and just try to gain self control

connor156
March 5th, 2013, 04:49 AM
you probally have become more effective at doing it

swimBoy
March 5th, 2013, 11:53 AM
Mine is fast to, esp if no one is home and I'd free to walk naked in the house and not just my room

GabAngel06
March 5th, 2013, 10:53 PM
Everything he posted is completely incorrect.

I think the problem is mental. If you feel anxious or nervous about finishing too fast, its not going to help. Try and relax, and just go slow. If you really want to last longer, you could try distracting yourself. Dont think about your fantasies or whatever, just focus on something else.

Yeah, I kind of agree with him. But I still believe that physical factors have contributed to your problem.