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sampelly5
March 1st, 2013, 09:19 PM
so i just met this girl from a mutual friend from another school via instagram. we started texting and we really hit it off. we have been texting non stop for the last 3 days but were starting to run out of things to talk about. 2 things i need advice on:
A: should i ask her out? we have never met in person and i think that would be weird to ask her out cause of that. but i do really like her and im pretty sure she likes me back. need advice on that.
B: conversation topics. we have talked about school stuff, common interests, and other normal teenage stuff. what else can i talk to her abut so she doesnt get bored. i have flirted a little and she has done it back.
help me!!!
AbbaZabba
March 1st, 2013, 11:15 PM
To me there is no set things to talk about. That really between the two of you and as for me, I am hugh on communication. It is just something you learn between the two of you. It's really just talking about whatever is on your mind, your day etc. If you are worried about talking, go to a movie, you get a couple hours of no talking and then you have something to talk about afterwards. Sounds to me after just 3 days, there is plenty to talk about. You have covered the basics. Really wish I could give you a bunch of topics, but there is no set rules of conversation. If you all really enjoy each other, you will find things to talk about.
Gandalf
March 2nd, 2013, 07:56 AM
so i just met this girl from a mutual friend from another school via instagram. we started texting and we really hit it off. we have been texting non stop for the last 3 days but were starting to run out of things to talk about. 2 things i need advice on:
A: should i ask her out? we have never met in person and i think that would be weird to ask her out cause of that. but i do really like her and im pretty sure she likes me back. need advice on that.
B: conversation topics. we have talked about school stuff, common interests, and other normal teenage stuff. what else can i talk to her abut so she doesnt get bored. i have flirted a little and she has done it back.
help me!!!
As the user above me said, you don't have to be going out to meet up, how about you invite her and your mutual friend, and the three of you could have a good time, while you get to know your new friend a bit better.
Just be careful, not to brush aside or forget about the friends you currently have, as this new friendship develops further.
As for conversation ideas, I have no clue :P You've done ok so far so I think if you just discuss your interests you'll at least know more about each other.
~Ben :)
sampelly5
March 2nd, 2013, 11:55 AM
update: we both confessed we like each other but as for dating we r gonna hold off for the moment so we can get to know each other better.
while i would like to move a little faster but im hapy wit what we have so i will be patient
Maddies_Not_Okay
March 5th, 2013, 12:02 AM
It honestly depends on who you are, I tried to have a cyber relationship, but it just wasn't for me. if it is for you, go for it, but be safe and wise about it.
anyone50
March 5th, 2013, 02:08 AM
update: we both confessed we like each other but as for dating we r gonna hold off for the moment so we can get to know each other better.
while i would like to move a little faster but im hapy wit what we have so i will be patient
Your never really going to know this person if your only contact is cyberspace so I would be curious to know which of you came up with the idea to hold off from meeting each other face to face. I've been in an online relationship and it didn't work because after almost a year i still had no idea who this person was. You don't have to actually start dating. Just get together with some friends so you can see for yourself if this is someone you would evetually like to date. Oh and by the way the person in an oline relationship that always puts off meeting in the real world usually has something to hide.
Annabel
March 6th, 2013, 01:23 AM
What are syberspace relations .I have no idea and thinking about it . Can any one provide me briefly information about it .I need your help about this matter and wanted to keep briefly detail about it .
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