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dvd333
March 1st, 2013, 02:29 PM
After i orgasm, i feel horrible. Like depressed even. Whats going on? What do i do? Please help :(

Naue
March 1st, 2013, 02:42 PM
It's totally normal, once you've climaxed obviously your horniness is supposed to dissipate.

In evolution, animals having sex are susceptible to predators so I'd say that it's an adaptation we have to make us able to protect ourselves immediately after orgasm, reducing the time of which we are weaker (horny). Sounds a bit dodgy, I know, but it's evolution.

johnsmith1
March 1st, 2013, 05:22 PM
I've never quite felt depressd, but yes, all the hormones that have made you feel horney are very quickly gone, and yes it's a bit of a downer.

SammieRose
March 1st, 2013, 06:48 PM
Come on nova, remember the other post http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=2152782&postcount=7

is the same thing that we discussed before, sort of.

Leftyxx69xx
March 1st, 2013, 06:50 PM
Do u feel depressed after orgasm from masturbation??? or just orgasm from sex??

dvd333
March 2nd, 2013, 02:07 AM
Come on nova, remember the other post http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=2152782&postcount=7

is the same thing that we discussed before, sort of.

It has gotten worse though. I feel like its my fault or something

dvd333
March 2nd, 2013, 02:08 AM
Do u feel depressed after orgasm from masturbation??? or just orgasm from sex??

Both. More from sex

Leftyxx69xx
March 2nd, 2013, 02:55 AM
Both. More from sex

interesting cus i thought after u mbate, u feel kinda lonely and empty thats why u feel depress...

SammieRose
March 2nd, 2013, 08:54 AM
It has gotten worse though. I feel like its my fault or something

Go see a doctor! You might need a therapist expertise.

lauren1
March 2nd, 2013, 10:23 AM
I sometimes feel a little disappointed afterwards, but not anywhere near depressed. After all, there's always the next time!

dvd333
March 2nd, 2013, 10:56 AM
I sometimes feel a little disappointed afterwards, but not anywhere near depressed. After all, there's always the next time!

Why disappointed?

lauren1
March 3rd, 2013, 12:05 PM
Disappointed because I don't want it to end. I know it's selfish, but I can't wait for the next time.

BanishU
March 3rd, 2013, 12:06 PM
I don't feel depressed, just bored.

anyone50
March 3rd, 2013, 12:38 PM
I just feel content and satisfied but maybe thats becuse i'm a girl. I have read that after a guy cums it's normal to lose all intrest in sex for a time but i'm not sure if thats related to makeing you feel guilty or depressed. I would have to guess there is some kind of mental conflict going on here.

dvd333
March 3rd, 2013, 12:44 PM
I just feel content and satisfied but maybe thats becuse i'm a girl. I have read that after a guy cums it's normal to lose all intrest in sex for a time but i'm not sure if thats related to makeing you feel guilty or depressed. I would have to guess there is some kind of mental conflict going on here.

I hope not:( it just sucks...

anyone50
March 3rd, 2013, 12:50 PM
I hope not:( it just sucks...

where you ever scolded by your parents for touching yourself when you were little.

dvd333
March 3rd, 2013, 12:54 PM
where you ever scolded by your parents for touching yourself when you were little.

Yes... and for looking, asking, playing, as well as humping...

anyone50
March 3rd, 2013, 01:22 PM
Yes... and for looking, asking, playing, as well as humping...

There is a correlation between how parents deal with sexual behavior of a child and sexual dysfunction in that person later in life. I'm not a therapist by any means but it sounds like your problem lies somewhere in this area.

dvd333
March 3rd, 2013, 01:39 PM
There is a correlation between how parents deal with sexual behavior of a child and sexual dysfunction in that person later in life. I'm not a therapist by any means but it sounds like your problem lies somewhere in this area.

It makes sense. I was very sexual as a little kid...and i was reprimanded a lot for it

Xpert
March 3rd, 2013, 01:49 PM
Hi. Maybe you try and change the fantasy...or create one....seems that one you may have may be of guilt or something like that.

dvd333
March 3rd, 2013, 02:13 PM
Its very isolating...