I think I'm Gay

[CSHTOB]

hey im 15 YEAR OLD male and im quit sure im gay bt im not sure. i gt turned on bu gay porn and jst shritless men. the thing is that i told someone i though i wa gay and they agreed but i didnt excpect it and i get called gay lyk 20 times a day at shcool and im not sure wether its the fact that ive been called it soo much that the kind of pressure of that has made me think well i am, bt ive never had a crush on a girl and well its lyk evryone says you need to get a girlgfriend cause i abviously havent and so i jst needed to no for sure

[Serenity]

chowee, please don't steal other people's threads. If you have your own question, please make your own thread, thanks. :daisy:

[mixedupfool]

i think youre gay too

[Never_Forget]

You're only gay if you're physically AND emotionally attracted to men. I'm physically attracted but not emotionally. It's just your hormones.

[sage of craze]

As tinhead said, it's physical and emotional attraction that makes you gay/bi. At this point in your life [puberty] your hormones are going phyco. Durning puberty it's not uncommon for boys to be attracted to other boys, mostly because that is what they are most familular with. It's no problem, I'm sure it will pass.
:D

[Trickster]

I think youre school is immature and needs to grow up. People who usually call you gay like everytime they pass you they are most likey gay or mentally distuturbed and venting it on you. You may act like what is considered gay or otherwise. Are you considered shy or small you know like a small kid that older bullys vent on? That may be it, youre small so it easier to vent on. It think the probelm isnt you its your immature peers around you.

[CSHTOB]

thnx bt im not sure it is a fais i mean ive felt better in myself since i kinda accepted that i was gay. i mean the whole school thing i've gt used to it and although i cnt stand it i dnt mind it to much. lyk in a lesson i have to sit next to this guy and he although i know jokinly i dont mind it lyk him huggin me and pretendin to put his arm under the table etc bt i dont mind it. bt i feel that i need to push hioim away etc so no-one thinmks i am gay. an the other day i was tlking to my sister and she sed hu wld be more acceptin if u came out mi mum or my dad iand i was thin kin about it and mi dad is sooooo homophobic lyk one of those cleche's like put them all on an island and my mum isnt oppenly like that bt my sis went and told her that i sed she would be nicer bout it and she shouted at me and sed she wouldnt accept it and that i was brought up a boy and il be a man and go out with girls bt it isnt wat i want and i spose i finaly accepted that i was gay and then had to kinda start again with the whole thinking through waether i am and i accepted it bt wether i shld wait till they cant chuck me out of the house or take away anythuing and maybe wait till im 17 or 18. bt it seems so long away and the fact that i alredy told someone i thought i was gay and the fact that i tlk to them about lyk gys i thought were fit etc and it is sooooo confusin help!!! please

[Trickster]

Ok ok calm down. You really shouldnt tell your parents because it will casue some arguments and other wise. Wait till youre old enough to support yourself as in after college. This may sound shallow but you may need to leech them cuz some parents even dont support their kids in college. As long as you really dont mind in your school then by all means itll be ok there. Its great that ur sis is ok about and if some unfortunate reason you give the hint or tell youre parents your gay you can have support and she can help or make them feel guilty for abdoning their son just because he is gay, a stupid thing so they might feel bad or get a mind to be more open about it. I'd say the problem is your house. So its really your choice, if you wanna risk it tell them because you have back-up, if not wait until after college for extra saftey. But none the less youre parents should love you no less, look you in the eye and say i love you and be able to say proudly and openly "My son is gay."