i'm confused

[jeffr]

it's hard to describe. I really like boys and girls both. I think i'm bi but i'm not sure. I've fooled around wiht a couple of my friends and i think guys are really hot. I think about having sex with them all the time but i don't want to date any of them. My girlfriend doesn't know ive ever done anything with a guy, but I've done stuff with her too. I think girls are hot too. but I only imagine ever having a relationship with girls even though i want guys too. can you be bi even if you want t o have sex with guys and girls even if girls are the only ones you want to have a reationship with? Does that make sense?

[Gwen]

Your basically bi, you want them for their bodies more than their personality form what you've said. Your attraction to guys is more around sex while your attraction to girls is more relationships. So yeah your bi.

[Ryhanna]

Sounds like you're bi. Even though your feelings are purely sexual, if you're attracted to guys then you're attracted to guys. That's why it's called being a biSEXUAL. :)

[ReginaGeorge]

To put things in simple terms: You are most probably bisexual. The attraction is each gender does not have to be equal, it can be sexual, it can be romantic, whatever, bisexual is defined as attraction to men and women.

Getting technical: There is sexual orientation, and then for people like you whose romantic feelings and sexual attractions don't match, there is a thing called romantic orientation. Romantic orientation helps describe who you can have feelings for, the same way sexual orientation describe who you can have sexual attraction too.

In this scenario: you like boys and girl sexually, but only girls emotionally. That's totally okay, and if you were to use romantic AND sexual orientation when describing your sexuality you would technically be (from the information in this post) a heteroromantic bisexual.

That means you have romantic attraction to the opposite sex, and sexual attraction to opposite and same-sex.

I hope this helps you out. :)