I have a girlfriend that wants me to have sex with her what should I do?

[jalenlevy]

:confused:

[tundravortex]

only do it when your ready,if u feel ready right now than do it or just tell her that not yet

[dvd333]

Do it if you feel 110% sure about it. Dont do it if thereis any doubt in your mind

[David29]

I Would say do it only if you are emotionally ready for it

[Evaboo]

Only if ur ready!

[geeky]

you're a boy^^ i rather would have expected that kinda question from a girl... :D

[hero98]

sex isnt nearly as big a deal as most people make it out to be, if you really look at it the "big first time" has absolutely no meaning, so if you feel ready to have sex just go for it - almost everybody is bad for their first time anyways so it only gets better, itll be fun

[anyone50]

sex isnt nearly as big a deal as most people make it out to be, if you really look at it the "big first time" has absolutely no meaning, so if you feel ready to have sex just go for it - almost everybody is bad for their first time anyways so it only gets better, itll be fun

Arn't you confusing no meaning with not being good the first time at sex. I can't speak for guys but I assure that from a girls point of view the first time does have a lot of meaning for most girls and most girls will always remember that first time and this has nothing to do with how bad or good it was

[hero98]

Arn't you confusing no meaning with not being good the first time at sex. I can't speak for guys but I assure that from a girls point of view the first time does have a lot of meaning for most girls and most girls will always remember that first time and this has nothing to do with how bad or good it was

No im not confusing it, you cannot make a valid, logical argument in support of the first time being in any way important - that's just a social contruct based around outdated christian values.

[tomfelix]

If you want to then definitely go for it! If you don't want don't

[StoppingTime]

No im not confusing it, you cannot make a valid, logical argument in support of the first time being in any way important - that's just a social contruct based around outdated christian values.

It's important to some people, and meaningless to others. You can really see it either way as its an opinionated statement; there are no 'facts' involved.

[PinkFloyd]

For something like this to work, both people need to be physically and mentally ready. That means that both of you are developed enough, or this could be a disaster. Mentally because sex, while great, is really nerve wrecking. I mean, when I had it for the first time, me and my girlfriend were both crying our eyes out for the rest of that saturday night and had no idea why. That's how powerful tis stuff is. You can tell her that you're not ready yet, and she should understand.

[hero98]

It's important to some people, and meaningless to others. You can really see it either way as its an opinionated statement; there are no 'facts' involved.

this is dumb, if it only has "personal value" for some people then it is irrelevant. It's on one level with religion.
note i never said people shouldnt care, just that the concept isnt logical and it therefore shouldnt hold one back, if they personally believe it should be "special" its up to them, its just really no argument in telling somebody to wait to have sex or not

[xmojox]

this is dumb, if it only has "personal value" for some people then it is irrelevant. It's on one level with religion.
note i never said people shouldnt care, just that the concept isnt logical and it therefore shouldnt hold one back, if they personally believe it should be "special" its up to them, its just really no argument in telling somebody to wait to have sex or not

You can believe what you want, but there is a lot more to sex than just the physical act. There are also emotions involved, not to mention the possible consequences. Anyone with genitalia can have sex, but, that doesn't necessarily mean that they should. This is irrespective of any religious belief. It's just common sense.

To the OP, if you feel that you're ready for it, use protection and have fun.

[Second Chance]

The fact that you are asking some random strangers on the internet about having sex is a good idea or not is a bad sign. Chances are you are not ready, and I would hold off. If your girlfriend dumps you for not having sex with her because it was not a good time for you, then you are better off without her. Sex shouldn't be about pressure but something fun you do with your girlfriend/boyfriend because you love them. If you feel pressure to have sex, then it is not worth having because it becomes a task and not fun.

Sex has a lot emotional and financial responsibilities with it, too. Just make sure you can afford condoms, deal with your girlfriend's feelings during and after sex, and be able to see a doctor just in case you have any problems down there after sex. Also, make sure your girlfriend is clean if she is not a virgin and that she is on birth control. Don't ever have sex with someone unless you know they are all right, and don't assume they are clean because they say so.

[digzchickz]

haha yeah most guys are ready long before their gfs. but yeah if you have to ask you probably arent ready, i mean personally i think that virginity is a lot bigger deal for girls than guys. i mean i really have no regrets losing it, i thought it was going to be a lot bigger of a deal than it actually was. so yeah, just dont expect too much from the first time, everybody sucks the first time that they do it.

[Bungelz]

mate. if your over 14. you should fuck her brains out and give her the D ;)

[sophiaLockhart]

it's best to only ever have sex when you're ready :)

[Meh Guy]

To do, or not to do....that is the question.

Follow your heart dude

[habbohop]

Go ahead! If you're fine with it! Otherwise just hold off until you're ready, I would!