What do i do?

[Khanh Khaos]

This girl keeps texting me for help with math, but every time i suggest that we meet up so that i can help her she refuses and says she can just ask me before class. Normally I wouldn't really care that much, but the thing is I kinda like this girl and I would like to spend time with her outside of class.

So I have 2 questions:
1.) What could be her reasons for doing this?
2.) What should I do about it?

[Apophis]

Well does she like you back and does she know you like her ? secondly I just hope she isn't using you for her homework, cause she keeps texting you about how she needs help with her math. She could be refusing cause maybe she does like you but is worried that she would get embarrassed about telling you or shes just not into you and is only needing you for home work.. That's my thought anyways..

[tundravortex]

yea i agree with the dude above me she may be embarrasses or just to nervous to tell u

[AbbaZabba]

1. There is no reasoning with a girl, rule #1. Without knowing all the facts, it's hard to tell. Are you smart at math? Maybe she does just want your help. How would you describe things when you are around each other? Do you talk? Is it just a hi and then class? Is she a quiet person or out going. A lot of pieces missing to try to give you a good answer.
2. I would help her and see what happens. You might have ask her too quick. Maybe she needs baby steps to start with. Sorry I couldn't help more.

[xmojox]

So I have 2 questions:
1.) What could be her reasons for doing this?
2.) What should I do about it?

1.) Either she needs help with math, she likes you, or, both.
2.) Help the girl with math. And talk with her as you can while you're doing that, and I mean about things that are not math. Be friendly and confident, but not arrogant.

[anyone50]

1. There is no reasoning with a girl, rule #1. Without knowing all the facts, it's hard to tell. Are you smart at math? Maybe she does just want your help. How would you describe things when you are around each other? Do you talk? Is it just a hi and then class? Is she a quiet person or out going. A lot of pieces missing to try to give you a good answer.
2. I would help her and see what happens. You might have ask her too quick. Maybe she needs baby steps to start with. Sorry I couldn't help more.

I agree with this and especially the part that maybe she wants only your help and it could be that she is using your kindness to get the help and with no string attached. Have you ever heard of Occam’s Razor which states the simplest answer is most often correct, although this is an oversimplification. Sometimes the best approch is the most direct and ask her whats going on.