Wrong signals.

[clr9823]

Me and ma mates mess around at school with things, but im sure were not gay. But theres this one guy who takes it too far. I don't think he's gay. I tell him to get lost but he doesn't get the message and i sometimes feel harassed. I'd like to try some different tactics of giving him the message without reporting him to our year head. Any suggestions?:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Why not just blatantly tell him to stop, that he's going too far, and if he doesnt stop, you'll report him. I think that should work.

[Gumleaf]

Why not just blatantly tell him to stop, that he's going too far, and if he doesnt stop, you'll report him. I think that should work.

agree totally. tell him once and if he doesn't stop, then report him. too easy.

[clr9823]

Yeah, but we've done that. Many times. I want 1 last option before reporting him. (Plz dont just say 'report him')

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well, If you've already blatantly told him to stop, Maybe give him one last warning, say "If you do it one more time, you will be reported". He does it again, REPORT HIM:D

[UKGuy9]

I have had a situation like this. This guy just kept taking it too far. I ended up being mates with him, but I had to tell him we was out of order and over the line.

My advice, just tell him to back off. And like trigger says, if he goes too far, report him

[clr9823]

Well, If you've already blatantly told him to stop, Maybe give him one last warning, say "If you do it one more time, you will be reported". He does it again, REPORT HIM:D
Thx. Do you think it would help if I stopped messin round with my mates for a few days???

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I doubt it, but you could always try that If you felt it was necessary

[Maverick]

Thx. Do you think it would help if I stopped messin round with my mates for a few days???
No, just tell him firmly to stop. That is the only way for someone to understand not to do something. Don't play mind games or do wild tactics. Just tell him firmly to stop otherwise talk to someone at school about it.

[clr9823]

KK. Thanks that should sort out the problem.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

You are very welcome:D

[Gumleaf]

just goin to move this to general puberty so its with all the other polls and stuff.

puberty boys - puberty general

[DrDrDrDrDr]

Why not just blatantly tell him to stop, that he's going too far, and if he doesnt stop, you'll report him. I think that should work.

completely agree

[theOperaGhost]

Lockage.

[Patchy]

Laura darling would you lock this thread plz.

and stop bumping old threads, DrDrDrDrDr. jumpin dyins

menchion please use the report button in future!