Hooking up with my Ex Girlfriend...

[SQLguy]

Well, I am 15. In July '12 I had met this girl and I really liked her (we were both 14 at the time), and she and I became boyfriend and girlfriend, it was a very slow relationship. (I never asked her out, we were just talking and she and I decided that we were bf+gf on teh forth of july) A few weeks pass and we are chilling, i have my first kiss (her second). She was alot of things for me, first kiss, first girl I ever danced with, ect. She breaks up with me the next day because we live too far away from each other to make things work. The feelings were still there, just we weren't together anymore.
Fast forward to February, I told one of her guy friends that I want to hook up with her over the summer, and he told me some stuff I need to know about her and stuff. Well he tells her, and she tells me that he told her. She asks me if I still have feelings for her, and I said "Yes, I have never liked a girl before as much as I like you." and she responds "Well I'm gonna admit something too.. I still have feelings for u"
I was quite shocked that she still had feelings for me, and I am going to most likely see her this summer, and I want to hook up with her and just see where things go. aka Make out with her (it would be both our first times doing that), go to second, then maybe third. How do I go about doing this? She is not very receptive to hints/body language she is kinda scatterminded is all lol.

[SammieRose]

MMMh, sounds much like summer love.... Be careful, she might just want to make sure she will not be alone this summer and might be playing with you knowing you have feelings for her.

On the other hand, you are both a year older, and hopefully wiser. I will say, start communicating with her, be it email, chat or videochats. Skype her if you can, start forming a long distance relationship so if you hook back up this summer, you will not split again due to distance.

Still think she is playing you, but that is because I'm a little pessimist.

[SQLguy]

MMMh, sounds much like summer love.... Be careful, she might just want to make sure she will not be alone this summer and might be playing with you knowing you have feelings for her.

On the other hand, you are both a year older, and hopefully wiser. I will say, start communicating with her, be it email, chat or videochats. Skype her if you can, start forming a long distance relationship so if you hook back up this summer, you will not split again due to distance.

Still think she is playing you, but that is because I'm a little pessimist.

Oh, she and I have talked about the state that the two of us are in, I dont want to tell her im interested in hooking up until relatively close to when I see her. Neither of us are interested in a long distance relationship, we both made that clear to each other. With a relationship ruled out, and the two of us having feelings for each other, I would think she would assume that means that we could hook up.

[SammieRose]

Oh, she and I have talked about the state that the two of us are in, I dont want to tell her im interested in hooking up until relatively close to when I see her. Neither of us are interested in a long distance relationship, we both made that clear to each other. With a relationship ruled out, and the two of us having feelings for each other, I would think she would assume that means that we could hook up.

As long as you both know it will be a summer fling, then go ahead, but if any of you is expecting more and the other does not, it will end up hurting and a lot.

Be careful not to hurt her feelings or get hurt. As long as you both are on the same page, go for it!

[SQLguy]

As long as you both know it will be a summer fling, then go ahead, but if any of you is expecting more and the other does not, it will end up hurting and a lot.

Be careful not to hurt her feelings or get hurt. As long as you both are on the same page, go for it!

I'm sure that she and I are gonna have a misunderstanding as to how far we want to go. I personally would do everything except for vaginal/anal sex with her. Neither of us have ever made out though. All we have done is a 2-3 second kiss on the lips. I would want to make it to oral with her, and I would completely be willing to lick her out. How can I move things along with her, like progress from making out, to the next step and so forth? Also, could I just offer to eat her out with the hope she returns the favor?