what sexuality should i pick because i am bi-curious

[jalenlevy]

fyi please help me
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[Troy35216]

if this is a legit question then i don't think sexuality is something you pick. you don't pick being right handed or having brown eyes or black hair either. i think your sexuality something you figure out. no one else can figure it out for you or tell you what to be or what you are. anyway it sounds like you have already picked your sexuality which is bi-curious.

[StoppingTime]

Well "bi curious" isn't really a "defined" sexuality, but then again that doesn't matter.
However, Troy is correct. You cannot simply choose your sexuality. However, you don't have to fully understand what your sexuality is, or even accept it until you're ready to, as it's certainly not something you need to rush.

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I agree with the above posts, but since I believe you are new to understanding how sexuality works, I'm not going to be as blunt as I usually am.

You don't choose your SEXUALITY, but you choose your LABEL. And I think that's what he's asking.

If I'm right, then if your bi-curious, then just stick with that for now. If you really are that confused about it, try to stay away from these labels as much as you can.

[anyone50]

I agree with the others here it's not something you have a lot of control over and if you find you are actually bi this means you like guys and girls both and are sexually attracted to both with variying degrees. So it's more like what partner do I choose(which guy or which girl) instead what sex.

[ReginaGeorge]

Bi-curious is not a sexuality, in fact, I don't know why 'bi' was ever added, because all you are is curious, or bi, not both.

You cannot, I repeat, cannot choose your sexuality. You will discover your sexuality in time, just listen to your self, and don't try to force or repress any feelings or attractions. Keep your mind open, and you'll find out. Keep in mind, it won't be days, it might be months, or years. It's not a quick process, and even if you think you finally know, it can change, so don't stress too much.

When you feel like you truly know yourself, you can put a label, like bisexual, on it if you like, but you don't have too. Labels are just ways to help us describe things. You don't have to fit them, they fit you.

Good luck. :)

[xmojox]

Bi-curious is not a sexuality, in fact, I don't know why 'bi' was ever added, because all you are is curious, or bi, not both.

You cannot, I repeat, cannot choose your sexuality. You will discover your sexuality in time, just listen to your self, and don't try to force or repress any feelings or attractions. Keep your mind open, and you'll find out. Keep in mind, it won't be days, it might be months, or years. It's not a quick process, and even if you think you finally know, it can change, so don't stress too much.

When you feel like you truly know yourself, you can put a label, like bisexual, on it if you like, but you don't have too. Labels are just ways to help us describe things. You don't have to fit them, they fit you.

Good luck. :)


Exactly!