help!!!

[Bigger69]

Ok so my girlfriend keeps cutting.. i love her to death and will give my right arm to get her to stop!!! But she wont stop... what do i do :(

[HerSecretsAreExposed]

Do you know what her problem is? Why is she cutting?

[Perfect_Insanity]

I don't know what your girlfriend is like, but I think you should just talk to her. And, more importantly, listen to what she says. Don't confront her in any way, because that will just hurt her. Has she ever told you about the self harming, or did you just notice? Anyways, the most important thing to do is support her. It's hard to quit alone, even if she is determined. I don't know if she's trying to quit or not, (I can't really tell from your post) but just try and support her. Also, like the last post said, she could have some very specific reasons for cutting, or maybe she's just depressed? Maybe if I knew more information I could help you better, but oh well. I hope this helps, at least a little. (Sorry it's kind of scattered.)

[Bigger69]

Well i have talked to her i even signed her up on this website for help under this section and she wont i have given her support and i have told her that she deserves the best and doesnt need to do it and every thing but she just seems to deny it

no she wont tell me... Morgan

[HerSecretsAreExposed]

Well, do you know how long she has been doing it? Maybe she feels it's apart of her. How is her school life, is she bullied, is there a problem there? She stressed? How about at home, how is her family life? Do yuou know? (the more info the more we can help.)

[HerSecretsAreExposed]

Well... Can you tell us what she is like?

[xarvon1412]

Be there for her, no matter what. That's the biggest and best thing you can do right now. Don't let her think that you're not there. Keep telling her not to cut, and tell her that it's not worth it to cut. No matter what though, don't just abandon her, make sure that she knows that you're there for her, through whatever it is that she's going through.

[HerSecretsAreExposed]

Be there for her, no matter what. That's the biggest and best thing you can do right now. Don't let her think that you're not there. Keep telling her not to cut, and tell her that it's not worth it to cut. No matter what though, don't just abandon her, make sure that she knows that you're there for her, through whatever it is that she's going through.

Yet he left me... I'm sorry for cutting... I know i need to stop... He was helping me, but I've found myself oushing the knife against my skin... He said he was always going to be there for me... He hasn't talked to me since we broke up 2-3 weeks ago....

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

Yet he left me... I'm sorry for cutting... I know i need to stop... He was helping me, but I've found myself oushing the knife against my skin... He said he was always going to be there for me... He hasn't talked to me since we broke up 2-3 weeks ago....

That fucking sucks, I'm sorry. If you ever need someone to talk to you've got me and the rest of vt. Also I sh too so it may be more help to you to talk to another person who does, so if you want pm or VM me.

Edit: I'm really confused, are you the one he is talking about. And if you aren't but do sh that ^^^^ still applies.