Asking a girl out

[teenuser101]

Hi, I am 16 and have never really felt any feelings towards a girl, until I met this one. Se is beautiful and has such a great personality and it is the first time that I have emotionally felt attracted to someone. I would love to ask her out and become her boyfriend but I have no idea whatsoever how to go about it.

HELP!!

Thanks, Dan. :)

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

Well, since you say she has a great personality, I guess you have a lot of stuff in common. Talk about all that, get to know her better and hang out with her a bit more.

When you think it's time to ask her out, the most important thing to remember is that you have to be confident. Don't ask her out to dinner, or anything too formal, but rather, ask if she wants to go see a movie together, or get some coffee or ice-cream.

Be casual, be yourself. Don't start off the conversation by asking her out. Make small talk, tell her a joke, you know, make her feel comfortable. Don't rush into it, but don't take too long either.

If she rejects you, don't make a big deal out of it. Give her some time, try again in a week or so. But, if she rejects you more than once, you need to get over her. Don't drool over her. Give her some space and she might come running to you. :P

[AbbaZabba]

Well, since you say she has a great personality, I guess you have a lot of stuff in common. Talk about all that, get to know her better and hang out with her a bit more.

When you think it's time to ask her out, the most important thing to remember is that you have to be confident. Don't ask her out to dinner, or anything too formal, but rather, ask if she wants to go see a movie together, or get some coffee or ice-cream.

Be casual, be yourself. Don't start off the conversation by asking her out. Make small talk, tell her a joke, you know, make her feel comfortable. Don't rush into it, but don't take too long either.

If she rejects you, don't make a big deal out of it. Give her some time, try again in a week or so. But, if she rejects you more than once, you need to get over her. Don't drool over her. Give her some space and she might come running to you. :P

Pretty well my words, this is good advice. The only thing I'm going to add, is kind of keep that boyfriend idea on the back burner. Concentrate on becoming good friends and the rest will fall into place. Communication and a good time is what you want to accomplish first.