Please Help Me!!!

[thenewguy]

Can you be gay even if you don't want to be? I'm 14, and I'm emotionally attracted to girls, but not physically attracted to them. Whenever I think about men, i get aroused, and i can only masturbate when im thinking about guys.
When i was 7 my friend and i were having a sleepover when we started touching each other and laughing. We didn't even know what sex was or what gay was, but it has haunted me forever and i feel really bad about it all the time. Did anyone else do something like this?
I have nothing against gay people, but i couldn't imagine actually living with another guy. Did any other guys ever go through this? If so, What happened? Please Help...
Thx

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Ive gone through that exact same thing too, and you really shouldnt worry, Right now I am not sexually attracted to women, but I know Im not gay. Just relax and enjoy yourself, and remember, only you can know for sure whether you are gay, bi, or straight.

[thenewguy]

:) thx

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Welcome:)

[thesonicguy]

Can you be gay even if you don't want to be? I'm 14, and I'm emotionally attracted to girls, but not physically attracted to them. Whenever I think about men, i get aroused, and i can only masturbate when im thinking about guys.
When i was 7 my friend and i were having a sleepover when we started touching each other and laughing. We didn't even know what sex was or what gay was, but it has haunted me forever and i feel really bad about it all the time. Did anyone else do something like this?
I have nothing against gay people, but i couldn't imagine actually living with another guy. Did any other guys ever go through this? If so, What happened? Please Help...
Thx

Wow my story is the same! :D

BTW Welcome to Virtual Teen thenewguy have fun be safe! :)

[wazzler7999]

this is a question about this so if this has been going on for awhile is it still possible taht its just bi curiousity

[Trickster]

im going through the exact same thing right now. All you gotta do wait until your hormones calm down. Its manly because your curious. If your emotionally attracted to on sex then you are probably that orientation. If youre just physically attracted it means you are curious so if you do experiment you'll find out. This is a rough time and i know how its feels but you gotta wait till youre 18 to actually find out. But if you like girls then go out with them and dont let that hormones stop you.

[thenewguy]

Ty everyone

[Never_Forget]

I'm goin thru the same thing also. It's rather embarrasing but hey, thats hormones for yah!

[The Batman]

your only gay when your absolutely 100% sure you are

[sabin22]

your only gay when your absolutely 100% sure you are

hes right on that 1

[Serenity]

You're not gay. You're gay if you honestly want a relationship with other guys. You don't. You like sexual stimulation, period. Probably the reason you're not emotionally attracted to girls is simply because you're just not mature enough. Honestly, calm down and just let yourself grow up.

[musicman93]

your only gay when your absolutely 100% sure you are
'nuff said.
I think you are just an average teen who just hit puberty and y'all were just curious. nothing wrong with that.