He got a girlfriend.

[Extreme586]

I thought I had read the signs right. I thought he liked me because of strange things that happened between us that were significant to me. Well I was wrong. On friday it announced in the biggest banner possible on my news feed that he was in a relationship with some hot blond.

I guess I was stupid to think that he would like a guy anyways. After all he had girlfriends in the past. How could I be so gullable and blind myself so much that I believed he actually liked me.

And this got me thinking. What about the other guy I have a crush on. He had a girlfriend freshman year (i'm a junior atm). He was nice and sweet to me when we really had nothing to do with each other. But now I'm starting to think he's just like the other one. Another straight guy who's just going to eventually break my dillusions and heart again.

Idk I guess I just need some advice, I'm confused and I don't see why I should even bother anymore.

[tundravortex]

well dude the only thing i can say is wait the right one will end up somewhere in your life

[teen.jpg]

Same. Exact. Situation.

I like him so much. His laugh. His smile. His weird personality. The way he makes me uncomfortable. The mixed feelings.

... But he has a girlfriend. And it hurts to say, but we'll never together.

My advice to you is to try and find someone who is available to you. There are plenty of options out there waiting for you to explore them. Eventually you have to move on and face the cold hard truth ...


HE'S STRAIGHT :(

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmm, my suggestion is to be open with a lot of guys and see if they will be open with you. Just show them who you really are, and some will show you who they really are. And maybe you'll find a guy who likes you.

[anyone50]

I have to agree with Grumpy and if you not totoaly honest with them as to who you are how do you expect them to act. You never said if you have come out openly so there's a good chance this guy didn't know. As for the other guy your talking about is there any indication that he is bi or gay or at least bi curious? if you continue to choose straight guys your going to make yourself miserable.

[Eth_94123]

You never know it could be a cover up?! Maybe because of things that happened between you?