life

[rockbottom]

bye.

[norcaldude18]

I just wanted to start off and say that life is anything but easy. Everybody has their own problems and in life we have to figure out a way to get through it. You've already worked so hard for 19 years. Why end your life after you've made it so far? There is a saying that goes, "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem". Just because things aren't going your way at the moment, doesn't mean things won't turn around. If you end your life now, you won't be able to find out. I too have suffered with social anxiety, and it isn't fun. The best way to overcome it is to stop fearing the worst, and step out of your comfort zone. You just have to do things that you are scared of. I know it sounds impossible, but it really does get easier. Social anxiety is a disease that can ruin your life. If you want to get your life back, you must fight as hard as you can to overcome your anxiety. I think this youtube video is very helpful, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-iNOFD27G4. I highly recommend you reconsider suicide and realize there are so many beautiful things to experience.

[rockbottom]

I just wanted to start off and say that life is anything but easy. Everybody has their own problems and in life we have to figure out a way to get through it. You've already worked so hard for 19 years. Why end your life after you've made it so far?

so far? i have to suffer every day by going to school to learn about stuff i don't care about until the age of 30 just to start working fulltime at a job i won't even like because in today's world, you need money to survive, and to get money, you have to do things you hate. what the hell is the point of living if we spend half of our goddamn lives sitting on our asses in front of teachers just to live the other half doing something we hate?

[norcaldude18]

I don't know, I guess I have a completely different outlook on life. I certainly do not believe that money is everything. I believe you should enjoy getting up and going to work every day. Even if you don't make $150,000 dollars a year, so what? The statement that in order to get money, you have to do things you hate, is not true at all.

[xarvon1412]

Don't. Right now, that is what I'm saying. Don't. Please, you have made it this far. You've made it to nineteen, hell that's something that if I was successful in committing suicide, I couldn't even say I made it to ten. That is an achievement. So don't after you've come so far. Listen, it's hard now, I know, and you can't think of life without that girl, but you will. Also? If you're meant to be with this girl, then you will be. If you kill yourself, that will never happen. You'll miss out on a lot of things that could happen. You might even miss out on this girl, this girl that has helped you so much. Also, what would she think? How do you think she'd feel, when you're gone and dead, what about her? Listen, you're not alone, I'm here for you :) I know that you say that we pretend to care, and most of the time I feel the same way, but I'm not. If you want to talk about it, or anything for that matter, I'll gladly sit and listen, and respond and stuff. Just post on my wall, and I swear, I'll actually care.

[Texas warrior]

It is not pathetic that you are here, it shows you strength that you are willing to ask for help. And hopefully soon she will break up with her boyfriend and yall can be together. I have been in a simaler place it sucks but it WILL get better. PM me some time and we can chat.