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clueless_one
February 25th, 2013, 12:47 AM
Just curious.

If I asked a girl I liked her, Would she tell me how she feels back to me? I told a girl I liked her and she didn't tell me how she felt back. I now like another girl and I'm afraid that she won't tell me how she feels back and it will lead to me becoming anxious again.

So, if a guy tells you that he likes you, would you say how you feel back?

Gwen
February 25th, 2013, 01:22 AM
You can't just base girls in one common group, all of them are different just as we are. You won't get a correct answer unless you ask her yourself and find out :3

AbbaZabba
February 25th, 2013, 08:42 AM
Have to agree with GrayRegrets, everyone is different, no difference between boys and girls on this, it's all about individual personalities and the only one the can truly answer that is the one you ask. As for me, I tend to be honest but would never say anything to hurt you.

anyone50
February 25th, 2013, 03:45 PM
Thats a tuff one to answer because there are as many variables as there are girls. So you told this girl you liked her and she just said nothing, or just ignored the statement? What your talking about is no one wants to be hanging out there with his or her feelings totally exposed and you feel that once burnt second time with caution.

There could be a million reasons why she didn't say it back everywhere from she didn't feel the same way towards you and didn't want to hurt your feelings to she was afraid and taken by surprise. Whatever the reason eventually your going to have to get back on that horse and put yourself out there unless you want to be a monk.

Just a suggestion since you didn't go into much detail on how long you knew her or if she had given you any indication she liked you as well. I wouldn't tell a girl you liked her or loved her untill you get to know her fairly well and maybe even have gone out a couple times. It would be better to tell her that Ive seen you around and would like to get to know you better if your not already friends. If you are already friends let her know you share some common interest and tell her you would like to explore these interest together.

These are but a couple examples and you just have to figure out what works in the situation your in but the point i'm making is that telling a girl you like her too soon puts her on the spot and some girls cope with this by running away.

Jess
February 25th, 2013, 03:58 PM
I would be stunned into silence. Though, I'll probably be speechless and not saying anything >_<

TinyDancer
February 25th, 2013, 07:05 PM
I really don't know how I'd behave. Depends on the guy and situation I guess.