View Full Version : Please help
irishmn1975
November 8th, 2007, 09:29 PM
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Learn2Bsmart
November 8th, 2007, 09:39 PM
I'm sorry, but I don't really have a "way out" of being attracted to other guys. I admit, I can't help but to, glance at guys, its a sexual habit in all of us, even if we do hate it to death. As long as you stay true to yourself, as in believe that you will be with girls for the rest of your life, continue to become aroused by girls and such, then the attraction to males might subside and possibly disappear.
Just as a side note, if you are around your "guy" friends and become attracted or even aroused, try to think of something or bring up a topic to talk about with em and soon enough you will be too focused on that topic and your arousal will disappear.
Gumleaf
November 8th, 2007, 09:40 PM
boys puberty - teen sexuality
Xxzero412xx
November 10th, 2007, 06:46 PM
not every one is 100% strait
boys can be curious doesnt mean ur gay
R_master
November 11th, 2007, 01:12 AM
denial isn't just a river... :/
sorry to say this, but fighting your sexuality can really fuck with you over time and can lead to tons of future mental problems. sexual orientation is most likely programmed into your genetics so you really cant blame yourself for the way you feel.
although i can sympathize that its not easy to be gay in todays society, if your just forcing your attraction for girls i doubt it will ever erase your true feelings.
unless you actually like both sexes sexually and its not just a front, then you can still live a normal life and have a nuclear family :)
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